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Male Submissive, 31, Winston-Salem, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 43, SuburbiaofDC, Washington D.C.
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Male Submissive, 30, New York, New York
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About experiencethis
Ok, New Year, New Profile.
I was listed as OrdealMaster but on examination, it no longer suits me.
I'm feeling less need to head to extremes for myself. This doesn't mean that if you need/want to go there, I won't take you there.
I am local to Ottawa, and would prefer if you were as well (this is not a deal breaker).
I want it all, and I don't mind admitting it.
I am a Dom, not a bully.
I want a sub, a maid, a pet, sex slave and many more things.
Do I expect to find them all in one person?
Simply put, No.
I have a wife, she knows about this, she is dominant as well, and is supportive of me looking for a submissive/slave/maid/pet.
I am polyamourous, this means I have the capacity to love more than one person at a time. Can a sub be included? Yes, if she is the right person. Will her feelings be taken into consideration when decisions are made? That would depend on the pre-defined arrangements.
I believe in rules. Rules and agreements that are discussed, negotiated, and decided beforehand. One hard limit that I have is that nobody will try to displace my wife. She and I will be together, this is non-negotiable.
My attitude towards subs/slaves/etc. can be summed up in simple terms, content workers are loyal workers. In every exchange, there is give and take. The level of contentment the interactions bring must work out to be fairly even, whether that is a short term equality, or a long term one can be negotiated.
At this time, I am open to either a "friends with benefits" arrangement, or a longer term arrangement with the right person. Through communication, we can figure out what is best for all involved.
Does the sub/slave/maid/pet/toy have to be bi? No, she can be, but my wife is not. If there is a requirement for additional female involvement, we can look for another.
Are there other questions?
Ask, I'm happy to chat whether you are a potential sub/slave/maid/pet/toy or not. |
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Made some changes to the profile to better reflect reality.
Enjoyment was perhaps the wrong word to be using for people of the slave class. I have switched over to using contentment, as some slaves I have spoken with don't think they want or deserve enjoyment. I won't claim to understand the slave mentality, it's not who I am, but if it works for them, perhaps they can work for me. |
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Apparently I could have been clearer on my willingness to consider a "part time" relationship with someone. With my life being as busy as it is, having a sub/slave/servant/toy/othertitlehere that can only be present a few times during the week would not be such a horrible thing. This would of course be subject to the appropriate negotiation and discussions about what would be happening the rest of the time. |
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