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Female Submissive, 35, Surat Thani
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Male Dominant, 53, Ontario
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Male Switch, 27, Brussels
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About expatriate
I am an experienced Dom with a rather wide arsenal of toys. I like suspension bondage and sensory control. I like to play with couples and submisive singles. I tend to like my subs to be younger than 45, less health risks that way, although each person will be concidered on their individual merit.
I have been in the scene for over 18 years. I like to take my time and test my slaves/subs to find their strengths and weaknesses. I like to get to know them BEFORE roles are assumed and any correspondence before a first meeting will be casual in nature. I believe in and whole-heartedly practice the Safe, Sane and Consentual state of mind. I believe TRUST is essential in power relationships and that takes time and effort.
If you contact me be serious about it! Don't waste my time. If I reply to an email from you, I expect a reply to mine relatively promptly.
MY LIST OF "DON'TS"
There are certain behaviors I have no tolerance for, sorry these are non-negotiable. I have my own reasons for each of them and they are not up for debate. I consider this to be a REASONABLE list, there is nothing really out of the ordinary about this list except the fact that I demand compliance!
1.)NO DRAMA! NO EXCEPTIONS!
I'm not here to be someone's dirty secret from their spouse or s.o. If you either live in the open or participate with your s.o. I have no problem, but I refuse to be involved by proxy in someone else's drama.
2.)I will absolutely not be involved with any minor under any circumstances. By a minor I mean anyone under the age of 21. This gives me the assurance I am not putting myself or anyone else at risk. Age is really not that important but the law is the law, and I believe children should be protected with the fullest weight that the law can bring to bear.
3.) No undisclosed health risks!!
There are certain aspects of the type of scenes I enjoy that could cause additional risk to someone with certain medical conditions. I don't wish to subject anyone to the embarassment of a trip to the emergency room. FULL MEDICAL DISCLOSURE is a pre-condition to any negotiation of a scene.
4.) I am interested in face-to-face play ONLY! I will get to know someone by means of electronic media but any cyber-sex is out of the question. Sorry, I just don't cyber, it doesn't do anything for me.
5.) I have a questionaire I require to be filled out and returned to me before the candidate will be considered. I know its tedious and not very romantic, but it helps me to find out what proclivities and particular kinks interest you. We are all different and I want to know what makes you tick. It saves me alot of work in the end, so thats why I require it.
6.) NO PETS! YUCK!
7.) NO SCAT! DOUBLE YUCK!
This concludes the "NO" List
Anything else is open for discussion!
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