Excavator

What can I tell you that will make you want to set fingers to the keyboard this very minute and write to me? Shall I tell you that I hope to find a woman who seeks romantic love as well as the sensual side of this lifestyle. First and foremost, you must understand this is not a game to me.. I am a lifestyle Dom, and live the M/s lifestyle.. That said, I believe the mind is where this lifestyle starts. The mind can be a very powerful and erotic thing if done correctly and most importantly, SANELY... I'm a very flexible person and open to many things. I am sure of who I am, and where I am going. While I may be strict, I am not overbearing. It's just my nature. This makes Me firm, but gentle. Naturally, direct disobedience must be treated accordingly. Overall, I've been told that I am comforting to be around, that I make people feel "safe". I also feel that lying or being manipulative in general, is a trait of the weak. I am honest, open and sincere. While I don't necessarily follow the rules, I always try to follow common sense. My primary interest in BDSM is pleasure. . I have little in the way of limits. This means that, while I will carry out the activities for which I have an interest, I should have no problem fulfilling any desire a deserving sub/slave might have. While I enjoy BDSM, I also enjoy vanilla, as well as other "soft" activities. I miss the feeling of being in love. When two people can't bare to be apart and are counting the minutes till they are together again... Walking up behind my love while dinner is being made and putting my arms around her and dancing and swaying together just because we are in love. I like to treat a lady like a lady and opening the door or giving a rose just because.... I enjoy a good time be it going to a nice restaurant, or staying home and watching a movie. I love seeing county fairs and museums. I'm very outgoing, and love to laugh and make you laugh.. I love to travel be it day trips, driving to nowhere special, like maybe taking a ride to RI or Maine for the for the seafood! I also enjoy cruises...... My idea of roughing it or camping is a Holiday Inn w/out room service...lol... I Have a Sybian that makes for a very nice reward indeed *smile*... If you know what a Sybian is, Great, if not, feel free to ask...

My ideal relationship is to be with someone who likes to share everyday experiences as well as passionate nights. A true submissive, someone who finds a freedom in her submission... A friend, a lover, a confidant. I hope to find a woman who seeks romantic love. Someone who likes to give as well as receive. I am looking for a forever-best friend, soul mate, and lover. Someone who is affectionate, passionate, loyal, and committed. You know you have sex appeal, and are not afraid to show it... You would enjoy the "flirting" stage even months after we meet.... A true partnership that incorporates not only BD/SM, but, love and intimacy, and respect, integrity, honesty and a deep lifelong friendship.... Do you pass as sweet and innocent in public, yet there is a wildly sexual woman lurking within? I find diametric behavior, or secretly deviant activities, very appealing etc.. Punishment will not be done without real cause. Just as I would not abuse a pet, I will not abuse my sub/slave. Lashing out in anger is an action of the weak. I much prefer positive reinforcement, and the act of giving as well as receiving pleasure in general... I do not desire you to fear my punishment; to the contrary, you should anticipate my approval. You will be tested. I am not interested in an on-line relationship. I use the Internet as a tool to begin a relationship. Role playing is not of interest to me, dominance and submission in a relationship is more a part of who we are and the way we choose to interact... If stripping all you inhibitions, being explored and looking to fulfill your deepest and darkest fantasies, I may just be who your looking for, so send me a message::