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Male Dominant, 38, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Female Dominant, 49, Atlanta, Georgia
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Female Dominant, 64, Chicago, Illinois
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About ExactControl
Notice: We always play as a couple. This is not an open relationship. We are not interested in meeting or otherwise become involved with any subs/slaves without the other party present.
As you can probably guess, the images above are not of us but rather captions and motivational material that he creates for his tumblr blog (theintelligentmisogynist). Assuming you like what you see feel free to check out his tumblr feed for more content.
(We are fine with sharing images of ourselves, but only once we have gotten to know someone.)
Greetings, and welcome to our kinky little corner of cyberspace. We assume that if you are reading this message that we contacted you recently, and you are accordingly checking out our profile to see if we are a good match. Well before I get into any details about us let me first say, “congratulations.”
We genuinely do not write that many people on here. Nor do we use form emails (each message is personalized to its intended recipient), and as Sadly most profiles on CM do not impress us enough to merit the time it takes to write out a message... well we are extremely picky in regards to who we do choose to write. (I.E. We do not just spam anyone that has a pulse.) So if we contacted you: feel honored; as there was obviously something specific about you or your profile that caught our attention.
With that out of the way, let’s move onto the real reason you are here, “what are we looking for?”
Well unfortunately the answer to that is not as straightforward as it might seem; as we have a number of different kinks/fantasies that we are interested in exploring, and well they vary slightly from person to person. However we can give you some detail in terms of the types of things that we find interesting, our general approach to BDSM, and the types of people we are open to considering for using in these pursuits.
So let’s start off with the basics. We are not particularly into pain. That is not to say that we cannot enjoy being rough and more physical (he is a very large strong man, and can manhandle you without issue), but we do not like to induce pain purely for pain’s sake. Nor are we that interested in bondage. Again it can be an enjoyable wrinkle in certain situations, but it is not a primary focus for us.
For us D/s is much more of a mental game, and the physical element is there in part to induce and reinforce the psychological aspect that go along with that kind of play. Overall we are much more interested in dominating you on a mental plain than one that is just purely physical; as ropes can be cut and/or removed, but that feeling of someone being in your mind, manipulating your thoughts, actions, and emotions… well that is much harder to escape. Now that is not to say that we do not crave physical stimulus, but ideally we want to dominate and subjugate you on every level possible.
As part of that we enjoy things like humiliation and degradation, but before you read too much into that do realize that again this is something that we personalize to the person we are involved with. Overall we use it as a tool to remind you of your place/purpose, and basically when we call you a slut or a whore, or if we express a desire to have you do something perverse and kinky: we want you to get off on it. We want to hear you beg for it, and we want to know that you are enjoying every moment of it.
Now this enjoyment may come in the form of satisfaction derived from the knowledge that you are pleasing us or from your own personal enjoyment of that particular activity, but regardless of where that pleasure comes from we want to know that this is something that you desire as much as we do; even if on only some secret personal level that you would be afraid to admit to anyone else but us. In fact we see that as part of the gift that a Dom/Domme gives to their slave/sub, and we view ourselves in those roles as giving people the strength and courage to pursue fantasies that they would otherwise not be able to enjoy on their own.
In general we see D/s as being extremely symbiotic, and we feel that that the better we take care of you the better you will serve us.
More to that point we will never force you to do something that you are not into; as that does not really do anything for us. We want you to be a slut with us, and to know that whatever happens we will be there to protect and guide you. Hence we want you to openly and willingly embrace your deepest darkest innermost desires when you are serving us; as we will be there to encourage you through every step of the way.
So, “what kinds of things do we enjoy doing and fantasizing about?”
Well again those interests are extremely varied, but generally they have some sort of mental aspect involved in them. For example: we love talking dirty. And we want that to be something you can engage in with us. We want you to bring your own perverted thoughts and fantasies to the table; as nothing is hotter than being surprised by some new thought that we had never considered before.
Accordingly activities like roleplaying, raceplay, degradation, and humiliation hold a great deal of appeal. Additionally we like to feel like we own you completely to a certain degree; even if we are only meeting on a part time basis. In the event of that situation we may ask you to do thing for us when we are not together to help reinforce that feeling of subjugation.
He has a strong interest in “bimboification”, and would love to find a young female slave that we could take on a more full time basis, and slowly transform into our ideal “sex toy”. He loves the thought of you committing the rest of your life to being a instrument of sexual pleasure; as if that is the only reason that you were ever created, and essentially wants to turn you into a walking talking pleasure doll and even goas far as to have you to modify your body to better match that image. (He loves breasts, and wants a huge pair to play with, abuse, and show off on a regular basis.)
Beyond that, gangbangs (we would love to have a slave that we could film being gang fucked, and then distribute videos of them online for the world to see and get off to), interracial sex, public humiliation, bukkake/gokkun scenes, … but again only with people that are into those particular activities. Basically if you have thought about it, we are probably into it. (Piss, blood, and scat however are not really things we are interested in.)
Ideally he would like to find a female slave for a 24/7/365 TPE relationship, but we are fine with playing on a part time or casual basis as well. (Although admittedly it would have to be a very special person for us to consider letting them live and serve us in our home.)
We will mention that she is very new to this, and, as he is much more experiences, at the beginning he will be the one primarily in control of any situations/activities. As she gets more accustomed to being around you, and sees how he treats you: she will gradually start to take the reins of command as well. However, do not expect her to be dominant with you from the get go; as that is an honor you must earn, by proving that you are worth her time and trust.
Now you may have noticed we do not have any pictures of ourselves posted on here, and the reason for that is simple: we are both extremely private individuals that do not want our personal interests to compromise our professional/personal lives. We are fine with sharing pictures once we get to know you, but until then we like to try and keep some degree of anonymity.
So that is basically us in a nutshell; although admittedly there are a lot more details that we would love to share with the right person. So if anything that we wrote here catches your interest: feel free to contact us and we can he is very longwinded at points), and we hope to hear from you soon.
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I recently started a slave/bimbo-centric blog on tumblr, and have started creating content (captions, stories, articles, etc.) to post there. If any of you enjoy some of our profile images, and are interested in seeing more check out my page at: http://theintelligentmisogynist.tumblr.com/ |
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