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"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something in your life."
Winston Churchill
Smiles and waves A strange thing has happened of late... I am no longer "etty" but rather "an etty". I am yet to hear a definition of an etty (suggestions on a postcard) or discover if becoming an entity is a promotion or a demotion. I rather hope it's the latter grins.
My situation Currently my partner and I are branching out and exploring different aspects of BDSM with trusted friends and play partners. I'm particularly looking to widen my fear and edge play experience. I like people who threaten me with fun metal shiny things. I am also a very willing rope bunnie- if anyone ever needs a willing victim to practice with. I will only play with people I know, trust and feel safe with (that should go without saying).
What are the traits of an etty? A somewhat complex character I tend to disguise my love of all things dark and twisted behind a sunny and innocent exterior. I adore skipping around in pretty dresses that me look naive and sweet but sneak peeks at the bruises, marks and torn lace concealed beneath. I suppose I am a walking contradiction: It tends to surprise people that I have a degree in Criminology but that is due to my lack of common sense. I love nothing more than pleasing you but I find it oh so difficult to behave. The thought of pain terrifies me but I crave the fear. I scream and cry but I want it to spur you on. The more pathetic you make me feel the more I'll end up loving you.
An etty's favouritest of things: Writing... I love writing. It is my ideal therapy. I don't think I'm particularly good at it but it's something I enjoy. People sometimes comment on the darkness of my erotica. Don't worry... it's fictional... mainly. Other favourite things: Passion, fear, challenges, debates, being threatened with sharp shiny things, being naughty, making your face screw up in anger, being told I'm a bad little girl, chain, rope, criminology, people watching, late night walks alone, transit vans, men who smirk, watching a fist clench, spontaneity and the unpredictable. And on a lighter note... (because I'm not always dark and intense... promise!) My guinea pig, Family Guy, Stand Up, fluffy duvets, Brendan Brady, cupcakes, social events, lime and strawberry Koppenburg, laughing so hard I nearly pee a little, singing to 80s pop, rock and heavy metal, reading, making cat noises, sloths, my boobs, head massages, traveling, exploring new places, Italy, my man's rather delectable bottom, Christmas and birthdays!
Where can one find an etty? My attendance at events relies on diary management, finances and whether I can scrounge a lift. But events I try to make it to whenever possible include:
Sheffield Kinky Drinks
Leeds Kinky Drinks
Wildcats And I want to get to Kage! Come say hello! I apologise in advance if I've been on the adult grape juice grins.
3/6/2012 10:32:14 AM

Just to save you all a lot of time...

 

I am not fake- I can be found at the events listed on my profile.

 

Also I am not looking to play with anyone old enough to be a parent of mine, sorry but that's just my personal preference. 40 is my upper age limit.

 

I am ideally looking to play with laid back, down to earth people who have a sense of humour and a particular interest in edge/ fear play.

 

I am in a relationship. I live with my partner. Don't offer to be a play partner if you can't cope with those facts.

 

:-)

misstressleyla
 
 Age: 23
  California