I can either be a very bad boy in need of obedience training or be a severe but loving master who trains his slave to know who is the boss.Role-playing should be fun, nothing too heavy or painful. I am considerate and respectful of boundaries and needs. I have a great sense of humor if a bit dry and ironic. I have a good collection of lingerie mostly from Victoria's Secret so we can dress each other up and take videos.
I keep myself meticulously clean and the only drug I do is marijuana and that infrequently. I drink socially. I am a smoker so if that bothers you don't reply.

I am well-educated, keep myself abreast of current events and am considered a good conversationalist. You won't get some one who is brain dead if you choose me. I have good taste for gourmet food and fine wine. I am a pretty good cook and have a good collection of wine. I know how to treat a lady and can be very generous with the right one There should be a long erotic buildup when engaging in bdsm. I have a lot of patience and like to go slow to enhance anticipation and thereby increase desire.
I am an avid reader of shakespeare, joyce, beckett, woolfe, austen and henry james. I love the theater and go as often as possible. I also like museums especially the Met. I am cultured and am interested in all NYC has to offer in that regard. I have a good collection of cds and x rated videos some of which have bondage themes which would be fun to watch together. Maybe we could get some ideas. I do have quite a bit of experience as both a top and a bottom and have a good collection of sex toys and restraining devices.
I am sane and safe but have quite an imagination when it comes to fantasy fulfillment and role playing. Age and race is not important but imagination and enthusiasm and a sense of humor is. I am willing to try almost anything and am very good in the oral department.