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About Esme611
*I have photos with face but do not want my personal business out there. I will share with Doms that I am seriously considering meeting in real life.
So after a lifetime of being a Dom in the majority of my relationships, I finally want...no NEED to explore my submissive side. Yes I am a switch. Merely because I am VERY strong female and by default will usually take on the stronger role. I am very tired of this. I want to meet a man that I feel is truly stronger than me so that I may submit control. However, I will not submit control to a man whom I can intuitively feel I can take over and that includes switches. If you can switch to being a sub then I will most likely take you over. I prefer men who are naturally dominant with no frills or obviousness to them and could not be a sub if their life depended on it. No need for goth clothes, purple hair, or whatever. You don't need these things. Nor do I. I don't dress a certain way to portray my D/s station. Although if my new master wanted me to wear anything in particular then of course I would.
Like any burgeoningrelationship, there is a "get to know you" time. If you try to start dominating me from the jump i will laugh in your face and walk away. It shows me what a rookie you really are. These relationships above all is about TRUST. Say it with me one more time...T-R-U-S-T. I will not submit to anyone prior to that being established. Period.
We have to keep realistic as well. We all live in vanilla roll so things like work, school and general life responsibilities have to be taken into consideration. I know my personality. I can, better yet, NEED to be completely loyal to one Dom...don't want to be shared. Also since I have been predominantly Dom in my relationships, giving up control is going to take some coaxing, practice and patience with me. But I also know this will be the best therapy for me money cannot buy:) |
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