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--Please read my journal entry below if You want to know straight away what i'm looking for, or available for, at the moment.
The profile below only describes that *ideal* context and that *ideal* Domme we never meet anyway. It is not meant to be a "laundry list", but it's rather an easy way to quickly dive into my intimate fantasies and check if W/we might be remotely compatible.
For all there is to it, i'm a service sub and my Lady's well-being and satisfaction are my kink and i, of course, do *not* expect anything else.
Please note, also, that English is not my native language, although i do my best to write it correctly.
Thank You for Your attention --
In my fantasies, then, i imagine Her to be older than me (35-50 would be my choice), educated, classy, not significantly overweight, strict but not yelling around, able to express Her will with a look, a pointing finger, a well-placed word or a slightly harsh tone when needed. And did i mention a quick mind and a snappy sense of humor ?
i also would enjoy Her willing to give some formal training as how to please Her (and not only sexually) : i look forward to learn Her protocol, to learn to serve dinners or drinks Her way, actively attending to Her needs or waiting at Her disposal while quietly kneeling, for exemple.
As You can see, i'm into service in a old English way (but totally naked preferably, which does not make it that English i believe !).
Most of my pleasure actually comes from knowing i'm being used for Her pleasure, well being and amusement (and kink, too...). It does not come from such or such things i would hope Her do to me (even though i do have my kinks, too, collar & leash being one of them).
Rather, i'm driven by the thrill to discover?at each moment how She intents to make me serve and obey, or to try and anticipate Her needs according to Her protocol.
Of course, i will answer any question You might have after reading this small profile.
Pictures, while not attached here, are available upon request.
Respectfully Yours,
eslave
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Reading the profile of a Dominant Woman here on Collarme, i stumble on this : "he also knows and embraces the difference between discipline and punishment".
i feel a lot of BDSMers got them mixed up, or even just never got to ponder about the difference.
They are quite different beasts to me. Punishment may come from a lack of discipline, for example.
While discipline is part of the day-to-day training to "mold" the slave and its behavior to the liking of his Mistress.
So a slave may be subjected to discipline during all the relationship without experiencing any punishment at all if he learns from its discipline and stays on his toes.
Discipline makes for a better slave while punishment tries to fix a bad slave.
That was the thought of the day :-) |
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Being slave to a slave. The thought has being echoing in my mind recently. What would it be like ? Being, for example, the valet of a first (alpha) female slave ? A tool She (or is it "she" ?) can dispose at will to make sure things are proper for H/her Master or Lady ? Or a toy thrown in when S/she has been nice and is allowed some time on H/her own ?
That sure would make for an interesting setup.
i'd love to hear the opinion of other submissive females about this. Heretic or intriguing ? Interesting or too far out ? |
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Thought of the day : when you love women too much, you're just bound to submit to Them.
Such is life... |
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Now, all this presentation above is fine and dandy, but what *exactly* am i looking for ?
The short answer is : nothing in particular and potentially everything, except maybe relocation at that time. LTR is a long-term goal, if the vanilla chemistry is right too.
Right now, i'm especially open to any form of contact from Dominant Ladies, as long as truth and honesty are the foundations of this exchange.
I'm not much into cyber fantasies but i adore email conversations with Dominant Ladies provided i can show the respect they are entitled to & being allowed to keep my place.
As far as cyber goes, if that's what W/we'll share, then let's make it real : real services, things that could really help and benefit You in any way, real entertainment for You (yes, i do have a webcam, but Your entertainment can be of any form You desire).
The bottom line is that i actually get my kick of knowing You are truly enjoying Yourself & my service, and that i am being truly useful to You even if this is through a virtual media. Cyber does not have to mean fake or virtual. Obedience can be real and useful to You.
i can also be a nice furniture or service boy during events, or just drop by for a week-end party if W/we do get along fine and You feel i could benefit You in any way (even abroad as i can hop in a plane and come to visit, as i did for a couple munches in the US a few years back).
To sum it up : i'm a nice, educated and polite submissive male, not looking for anything in particular (no laundry list here) and open to dialogue, service (cyber or real) and all-around use from Dominant Ladies i feel a connexion with. Trust, communication and honesty can go a long a way.
eslave. |
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| Age: 22 |
| Orange,
California |
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