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EraofDestinati

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	Hey there! My name is eradyne, or just era is fine! I use they/them or she/her pronouns. I am a versatile sadomasochist with a plethora of kinks, but a proud slave first and foremost. Kink isnt just what i do, its a part of who i am. <><><><><><><><><><><><><><> Current Status The tides of chaos buffeting the boat of my life have started abating and i feel blessed: a new awesome job, a simply amazing girlfriend and new heights of confidence in my identity have left me feeling powerful! Current Goals My main goal is to meet and get to know someone that would be interested in creating and evolving a power exchange dynamic together. I am always looking for potential friends, play partners and cuddle buddies. Shoutout to all my fellow nerds! I’m researching things related to the art of rope bondage and would be elated to chat with some one well versed as a rope top. Im on the hunt for info about Ds/poly/kink families or dynamics with multiple D or s/types and the experiences of those who’ve lived that style of life as its intriguing to me and i feel learning about it would help me overcome a weakness of mine. Personality I am kind, polite and honest when I interact with others, and when it comes to consent and boundaries i act with the utmost care and respect. We are all human, and more often than not, humans before kinksters. I judge people for their intentions, how they treat others and the content of their hearts. Im capable of attraction to all genders, body types and ethnicities, and Inner beauty, intelligence, passion and dominance are what i find most alluring. I believe in protecting our environment, feminism, equality for all, abolishing poverty, sexism and racism, I believe in protecting innocence and solving the mysteries of the universe. Above all else I believe in absorbing hate and exclusion and permeating love and inclusion. I have a very powerful and genuine love and desire to support others and do good. We have to learn to work together if we want to take our species to new heights and achieve the impossible! Past the wall that is my shyness you’ll find a humorous and affectionate individual with a love of cheesy jokes, puns and cuddling :3 I have a near-infinite amount of patience and always love hearing people speak about their passions and rants. I also enjoy being bratty and mischievous on occasion... I am capable of Dominance but it is very rare and a seed i am not yet ready to cultivate. I am aware that not mentioning my weaknesses would be an arrogant thing to do, and I’m not like that. Im not the most assertive unless its the only option, i can be naive and I'm kinda awkward when it comes to being sociable... I sometimes have trouble navigating social interaction with individuals i haven’t become comfortable around, and im reeeeally bad at initiating things or going deeper with people. Everyday i aim to make progress though! Im not religious, well, unless you count when ive worshiped my partners, but i am spiritual. I like to jokingly say im the member of a one woman cult, but its pretty much true. I believe in a hybridization of Wicca and Pagan beliefs, praising water and darkness as sacred aspects of nature. One reason i wear so much black and blue 💙 Kink Submission I have a fair amount of experience to offer as a sub. Submission for me is natural as well as a mental urge. I have many, but my top favourite kinks are rituals, protocol, and the power differential in dynamics. In my adventures ive spent time offering my skills for the benefit of others as a slave, toy, rope bunny, brat, masochist, and bottom, in as well as both control and service orientated dynamics. So far i have enjoyed all of these experiences and am eager for more opportunities to offer myself up so D/types can experience hard-to-achieve kinky feelings, help the community thrive and grow so others can have their natural desires fulfilled, learn more about the wondrous world of BDSM and how to per better so i can obey the wills of others and enrich their lives however i can, and in the process do so for myself! I am very submissive, but only fully give the gift of myself to Individuals i come to trust and respect. Don’t consider this thinking too highly of myself, this is just how i protect my vulnerable side. I cant care and support my partner without hurting myself if i cant trust them to meet my efforts in kind. Once I trust someone enough I’ll gladly and eagerly relish every opportunity to give all that i am; loyalty, service, obedience, patience, respect, subservience, devotion, power, adoration and so much more. I can confidently say that i am not a “Do me” sub. Making sure my Dominant or partner feels happy, satisfied, fulfilled and/or gratified come first. Because pleasing others is what “Does” me. My main drive in my interactions is to bring a smile to your face. Whether its a sadistic grin, a pleasured and satisfied simper or a laughing face, Ive achieved my desire. Top I can not switch to Dominant, but I have some Top orientated urges which i have yet to tap into. Namely to tie someone up, have them feel helpless, to tease and make them feel protected and cherished. One day i will pursue my nurturing and supportive urges and possibly look to meet a delicate spirit who will let me tie them and hold them close ❤️ I also have a thing for butts of all types, sapes and sizes. My bratty side also sometimes wants to manifest as a mischievous or sadistic top. When they resume after the pandemic i plan on attending rope classes and learning more. Hobbies I have an immense imagination that manifests as poems and more characters and scenes in my head than you could shake a riding crop at. I’m a writer, a burgeoning photog and have an appreciation for art in all its s. I really enjoy cooking too! Im a raging music junkie for my special playlist thats always close to my heart. I wouldn’t be caught dead dancing or singing in front of others, but if you leave me alone with my earphones then its only a matter of time! I like almost any genre that is fast paced, fun or catchy: Rock, EDM, Heavy Metal, Electro, R&B, Dubstep, Alternative, Eurobeat. I also love gaming in all its s. Im a Dungeon Master for D&D, board game savant and semi hardcore gamer. They’re so fun and great for bringing people together! When it comes to video games im a huge fan of rpg’s with diverse and intricate stories and worlds, mmorpgs, cooperative, survival and sandbox games. I love collecting medieval paraphernalia and I’m slowly collecting kink gear too. Occasionally they mix together for some interesting imagery! Researching dreams, psychology, mental health, emotions and human behaviour is another way i kill time. Anyways! Thank you for reading. If you want to ask a question, nerd out, chat, need cheering up, want to vent or anything else, message me at your leisure. May you sate your desires for love, fun and lust, and have a nice day!