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I am a highly intelligent, attractive and submissive man seeking a Mistress for which I can devote my effort and attention to in the way she desires and merits.
I take great pride and honor in my servitude; these traits shine through with each and every aspect of my submission. For it should not matter the magnitude of a Mistress's words or the extent of a particular order, but rather the fact that the request was made from her and, rightfully so, it is expected to be done without prejudice or inclination from the sub. I don't believe numerous and/or multiple directions from a Mistress should be "weighted" depending on the sub's perception of how important these requests might be to them.
Submission is not, and should not, be about a sub's perception of the scene and/or environment they are in. It is with this regard that submission loses its purest form and deviates from its true intended course. (i.e., retrieving a glass of wine for a Mistress should be given the same amount of respect and effort as being able to act out your favorite fetish with her). When one realizes the importance of this aspect, has a consistent and conscientious mindset regarding it, and is willing to apply it to any and all situations, an illustrious sub will become of him.
I am highly intrigued by the mental aspect surrounding the nature of domination/submission. The mindset involved in giving up your rights and more importantly, yourself, to someone and serving them at a level beyond their expectations is something that I take pride in. It is with pride that a sub can truly be looked down upon and respected by the one he has given his gift of submission to.
At the present time, I am pursuing a Mistress in which I can establish communication with in the attempt to discover mutual interests and expectations. I believe I have a lot to offer someone as I am a very well-rounded individual who perceives dominance as an art and views the act of it as a 'meeting of the minds' between two people on two different sides of a similar spectrum.
It is my opinion that communication is absolutely essential in any relationship of this type. Of all the personality traits involved in BDSM, I am compelled to admit that the ability to communicate with someone is one trait I desire to achieve on a high level as I have a high regard for it. Relationships of this nature should not become stagnant in character for that has an unavoidable tendency to cause both individuals to drift towards a state of mind that prevents the relationship from growing in the proper fashion. Rather, I believe the relationship should be ever-evolving with variations made along the way to keep it fresh and exciting.
For privacy reasons, I have chosen not to share a photo in my profile. However, I do have recent photos readily available and will be more than happy to send them to you once the initial communication has been established. Anyone who is seeking a general idea will find it in the following description: I am 6 feet tall, about 170lbs; I have blonde hair, green eyes, a slender build and have a stylish and professional appearance.
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I am looking for someone whom I can serve on numerous levels. It matters not to me how basic a certain activity is or how extreme a particular scene becomes. I believe a sub should put forth 100% of their effort to ensure the Mistress's desires and/or needs are being met at full scale during every situation he is a part of. I am of the opinion that a healthy Domme/sub relationship should have a foundation on which to build upon and this foundation should be layered with multiple levels of servitude. Each of these levels are unique in and of themselves; but when viewed as a whole, they become a beautiful assembly of a sub's abilities and commitment.
To try and put down on paper exactly what I am looking for in someone would be an injustice. However, I will say that the ability of a Domme to understand the inner-workings of a D/s relationship is something I find intriguing. Furthermore, I am also intrigued at the thought of a Domme who believes that a sub should be respected even though this person has placed themselves in a status that is beneath her own. Essentially, respect should be both given and received by both the Domme and sub. I believe this creates an equilibrium or balance between both individuals and, in turn, provides for a very healthy outlook on the relationship from both sides.
In addition, I have always been admirable and have a high regard for Dommes that have the ability to get creative with what most would refer to as 'mainstream' fetishes and are also capable of being creative with any punishments they deem necessary. All of this relates to the mind and imagination of a Domme...and I believe the mind is a very key element involved in ensuring that the D/s relationship flourishes as it needs to.
I have a desire to serve someone who I place on a mental pedestal that is above all others. I hope to find someone who is able to bring this out in me and continually intrigues me to keep her on that pedestal. I do not ever become bored with a relationship of this type; however, I hope to interact with someone who is able to change things up here and there to keep the relationship exciting.
Having routines are great, but the relationship becoming routine is not. Someone who understands the difference is one way to describe who I am seeking. In closing, I seek someone who will be at the forefront of my mind whether I am in her presence or not.
If anything I've said is of interest to you, I would be happy to discuss any particular aspect in more detail and answer any questions you may have. For those who have read what I have to say and made it to the bottom of this writing, I'd like to thank you in advance for your time and consideration.
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