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A Little History!
The journey that has brought me here started about 6 years ago when I was first introduced to BSDM by attending the fantastic Impulsion (Ive always been the sort of person to jump in at the deep end!).
The sights that greeted me that night in a heaving nightclub full of half naked people were both shocking and exciting. Did people really do this to each other, did they really enjoy it, is there really acceptance of these desires? Within half an hour of entering the club Id been introduced to many people, all of whom looked genuinely pleased to see me.
A memory that will never leave me is how totally alien this environment was yet the welcome was so warm, it felt like i belonged. Since then Ive connected with and played with a number of lovely people, some in clubs, some privately.
Ive had the great privilege to meet some wonderful people some of whom I now count as best friends, experienced lots of different types of play and learnt many things. However I am still learning, I think you always are on this scene.
The kinky me!
I believe that the gift of submission is one that only comes with respect and should be treasured. Whether we are sharing a coffee or glass of wine, or Im gently bound, kneeling and blindfolded, or listening to whispered thoughts that are messing with your head. Your gift of dominance and your orders will always be respected and served with no questions asked.
Im also not a lifestyle sub and although there is an something inside of me thats released with BDSM, it doesnt consume me, its not and never will be the whole of me. The best piece of equipment I believe is my mind. All of the Violet wands, floggers and nipple clamps in the world dont make a good Dom. Knowing, feeling, understanding and connecting with your partner does. I truly believe that there is no one size fits all way of describing any of Ds relationship. The dynamic is different with everyone you meet and communication is key to un-locking inner desires.
The Vanilla me! Im a very tactile and caring person, Im good at listening (yes I am a man!). Im intelligent, discreet loyal and above all honest and straight forward. I generally wear my heart on my sleeve and dont participate in game playing. I have a demanding job and work at a senior management level, Im quite good with my hands and Im creative when it comes to cooking up evil ideas. Age, looks and body shape are not important to me attitude, mind and personality are. Id never look for a relationship based purely on kink and bdsm.
Looking back on this I realise its rather long and rambling, but hopefully gives you a little flavour of me, so if youre still awake and in the least bit interesting in talking and taking this forward then please do drop me a line.
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