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Male Dominant, 34, Morrisville, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 60, Mid_Cities, Texas
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Male Dominant, 50
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About EnigmaticSub
I have an intellectual appreciation.... cerebral if you will. Intelligent, confident, strong women turn me on. I love to laugh, it truly is the spice of life. I love a great wit... light hearted banter. I'm reflective... which we know can be a blessing and a curse. I'm always learning... sponging up life. Am I an enigma? I don't claim the propensity for others not getting me at times as all my own. I think people don't know what to think of me at times, although in the vanilla world I'm a business man. I think it's the non-business moments with them and others that makes them wonder about me. I'm somewhat mysterious to them, they don't "get me" I think they..... probably think I'm a little weird, lol. And I'm not referring to my WIITWD side, although it probably states more about me than I know.
My interests started off on the play side of things, which probably isn't unusual. My mind is trying to wrap around the actual non-sexual submission aspects. I resisted at first (and still do).... but find myself thinking it's not just what I want, but need. |
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My experience is limited. I've learned a great deal reading the message boards here and articles on other sites. There is a protocol of sorts..... a way to act. Of course there is, what I'm saying is..... there is a code of respect and responsibility that Dom's and sub's alike should follow...... that..... it's for safety yes, but also for growth. (ok, the last sentence makes sense to me if to no one else, lol).
What's interesting to me is my progression without a Dom being involved in the lesson. Again, from reading. As I stated in my profile, my interests began with the sexual or kink aspects.... to play. But I'm embracing the lifestyle aspects. The resistance to the ideas and ideals of non-sexual submission is slowly breaking down. I think my selfishness needs this..... that left to my own devices..... I don't have the discipline. I need the discipline. I'm a serial killer, I've murdered all my relationships, lol (with respects to The Sopranos). I think I know deep down it's what I need, but my machismo is fighting it.
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