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Female Dominant, 55, Englander
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About enablecompromise
I am not active in the BDSM lifestyle, and do not wish to be per se. My past dabbling’s occurred in the course of a mundane/vanilla lifestyle (two marriages totaling 25 years) and an exhilarating (albeit short-lived) light BDSM affair that bridged them. My first marriage ended in divorce, and my second ended with her suicide in the early summer of 2011. I am a combat veteran, and remain affiliated with the military professionally. What brought me to this site, and to this search for you, are the results of self-evaluations over the past eighteen months. I am not fake, or a poseur. I am a warrior and a leader. I am an Alpha male, and I am seeking an alpha submissive, who chooses femininity as an act of the will, a woman who wants a worthy man whom she can please, and her "submission" is only to the man of her choosing. I want a lovely, passionate, intelligent, confident, capable, and self-sufficient woman. I want to want you. I want to need you. I want to please you and devote myself to making you happy, and to making our life together safe, and secure, and comfortable. I want our bond to be total. I seek empathic, physical, psychological, and intellectual intertwining with you. I want to earn your, trust, your respect, and your obedience. I want love. You must be literate, articulate, and intellectually curious. We do not have to agree, but you must be able to think for yourself. You must be independent and unbroken - not undamaged, as that is unreasonable. You must come to me in love and desire, not out of greed or economic need. You must be honest with me and with yourself: Honest in your opinions, honest in your desires, honest in your needs, and honest in your yieldings. I want a woman. I want you. Not a child - Not a mindless submissive, or a will-less slave - I want my perfect partner. In return, you will have my complete attention. You will be my life, and my honor. I am interested in hearing back from you if you read over my profile and find me of interest. Are you such a woman? I am interested in long-term relationships leading to marriage. I am strictly monogamous. I am also drug and disease free - illicit drugs, anyway, I enjoy fine cigars, and the occasional libation. My partner will also be d/d free. |
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Her Diary:
Tonight, I thought my man was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with my friends all day long,so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.
Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much.
I asked him what was wrong; He said, 'Nothing..' I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it.
On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.'
When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep; I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
-----His Diary: A two-foot putt..........who the hell misses a two-foot putt ?
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I am interested in hearing back from you if you read over my profile and find me of interest. I am not fake, or a poseur.
I am a warrior and a leader. I am an Alpha male, and an intuitive dominant. I am seeking an alpha submissive. I believe that femininity is a choice; an act of the will, that in a D/s relationship the woman and the man complement each other and are actually psychological equals, this is a relationship of equality. By this I mean that an Alpha feminine is a woman who wants an worthy man whom she can please. The important point here is a worthy man, her "submission" is only to the man of her choosing. I simply believe that I am such a man. Are you such a woman?
I am only interested in long term relationships leading to marriage. I am strictly monogamous. |
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