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Transgender Submissive, 32
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Female Submissive, 26, Houston, Texas
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Female Submissive, 18, Henderson, Nevada
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About emilylovetoy
I am a loving, kind woman, who loves to laugh, love, have friends, be silly and girly. I am also a very genuine and sincere person, fragile in ways, but extremely strong for those I love. I'm lifelong romantic. At times I am a little girl, a bawdy flirt, a fixer, a devoted friend, a great cook, a fiercely protective mother, an overwhelmed single woman, an intellectual conversationalist, a lighthearted companion, an insatiable lover, and much more... it's all me, and to pretend I can't laugh and swear like a sailor and then turn around and cry over a lost puppy is to disown myself. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am emotional, not dramatic. I shy away from conflict, and anger causes me to wither. I love with my whole heart, mind, body and soul. I have my own needs, wants and desires... and I'm working on believing I have every right to those.
As a submissive I am committed to a life of exploring, learning and growing. I seek to know myself and the one to whom I give my heart and my gift, as deeply as possible. I am not a Redbox, you cannot rent my submissiveness for a night or even a week and think it can be returned in the same condition. I serve only to the degree my heart is filled. I love to give and make others happy, but I am a well that also needs to be re-filled.
I am looking for a deeply committed, loving, real D/s relationship... a Dominant who can be my best friend, companion, teacher, lover, and strong arms to hold me. I have everything to give. While no one can say they have no limits, I can promise that the ONE I submit to will be the center of my world, and I will seek his pleasure and happiness with renewed effort, every day of my life. I will never seek for my Dominant to be a mind reader. I promise open communication, loyalty and complete devotion.
My "process" of getting to know someone is very like dating in the vanilla world. I want to know who you are, what we have in common as people, what potential connection is there. Respect and trust are earned, and not by wanting to cyber play with me or move right on the your fetish list. It takes time to know me, and time for me to know you. If you do not seek precisely what I am, or are willing to spend the time, please don't waste either of our time. Life is short and precious.
Oh, the ground rules... Okay, here it is: NO MARRIED MEN, NO POLY, NO COUPLES. Only single men, fully available to be in an honest, and open relationship with me should contact me. I have no judgement, it's just not for me. Also, absolutely NO Cyber. If you're looking for a kinky pen pal, or a wanking bit of phone sex... I'm not for you. (Okay, glad that's done)
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I wanted to post a final note to wish everyone joy and happiness in their search.
I will be closing my account within the next day or so. I am leaving the lifestyle despite many years of trying, and much happiness, yet much pain.
What I have found I'd that it is rare the anyone understand the depth and need of a truly committed, crazy in love, D/s relationship.
It is a huge misnomer that submissives are cookie cutter, all find pleasure in pain, don't have needs (both sexual and non sexual). And are not worthy if the same care they give, albeit in different ways.
I choose to go in a direction that will make me feel better as a person, and will hopefully some day lead to happiness without complete sacrifice of self and a life with no more physical pain in the name of the D/s relationship.
Blessings and good fortune to all.
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I am overwhelmed by messages...if I have not yet responded, please do not take it as an affront. I almost always reply, unless the message is vulgar or offensive, and some messages, because they are so wonderful, require more thought.
Hugs to everyone who has given me the gift of their time to write to me :) |
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