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*i do not respond to those in distance or/and age of 46+*
I am Ronin and I am Geisha and I see no contradiction in having said that. Both require a Master to be at peace and at full function. Despite being new to rope I hope to create sacred space and domain with my partner. I know of it's power and want to know it's secrets --including yours. I want to be your confessor.
I enjoy adventurous meals and delightful libations. I like to sweat because it can only mean good things are happening. You'll find me in quirky and novel events because I need my mind constantly stimulated--as I will keep yours. I look like a librarian type for a reason (wink) but never forget that still waters run deep.
Ideal Match: What I'm about to say should tell you a lot about me. I'm embarrassed to say I'm an elitist. I've spent my life to be the best, but i have found it doesn't give you happiness, if you don't take the time to let your hair down and enjoy life. I'm now taking the time.
Please keep in mind that there is a difference between elitist and cocky--just as I prefer attractive over good looking, any day! If you are looking for a sporadic connection, keep looking. If you are looking for underlying tension and attraction that occurs when we look in our eyes...I invite you to look in my dark, dark eyes. Are you worthy of my deference?
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Wow! A lot of weirdos are up so late at night...
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confession time: this place drives me stark mad. i feel that my finger is always on the pulse of "delete" the profile and yet within this madness, i've had the pleasure of meeting some pretty cool folks. though many pass through the night, without even a good-bye. some have stuck around and we've had delightful conversations, delicious dinner and dessert. fabulous--thank you!
can't say i've found play partners, but a few intellectuals to spar with and explore. (ok, perhaps one married switch who has a place in my heart for his consistency in communication. hats off! )
most recently, i was given the challenge by a dear fiend to be tri. No, dirty filthy folks--not tri-sexual, dear me, i'm not even bi! (hard limit) He invited me to do a triathlon! and i said "hell, ya!" Ok. So it's not an olympic length but i'm willing to give sprint a go. I did my third la marathon this year, i've done fun things like doing mt. baldy in the summer...why not this? let's go. who says curvy girls can't move?
wait....i don't don't know how to swim!! oh ya. i guess i have to get over it. hmm. little bit of the masochist in me coming out, now get out of the way!
smooches, you wankers
oh, what's playing? "Love" by the sundays. " so kill me with love. just love yourself like no one else...."
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It's official today dear bitch boys, pets, esteemed fiends and deviants! At 4pm I'm getting the paperwork that says I'm a Master.
Now, master of what? I guess we should talk over drinks...Garcon!
ps.
Anner Bylsma is playing in the background....or perhaps some Wilhelm Kempff.....hmmm
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ah, the holiday. i've
mostly spent it indoors. self defined confinement. tucked away to the corners of my mind, to reflect. get some
work done...and think about what's next.
but such seriousness, we come here to escape. to talk of flowered aprons and red velvet cakes. Delicious! Now, bring my gimlet, darlink
listening to tom petty-- time to crank up "last dance for mary jane." " Oh my, my, oh hell yes..."
and yes, i'm still listening. still listening for the elusive you.
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People forget there is a price to pay for everything. In a dominant role obedience and adoration are often bartered.
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Natale hilare et annum faustum
(no I haven't been influenced at all by working on medieval latin texts for work! :)
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i came across the following depiction from a Dom and thought it was hot!
"I want to walk with a lioness on the end of my leash, one fully capable
of ripping my head off. There is the excitement, there is the
challenge, and there lies MY goal, my partner, my woman."
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a while a go, i decided that i should be true to me. to really
listen to myself and figure out what it was that my body and mind
craved. i sat quiet and listened to the blood pulsate in me. heard my
heart pounding as i sat still. i felt the power in me resonate beyond
my still realm. it was in my stillness that i was propelled to move
and start on my quest.
most wouldn’t fathom that i can utter the word “submissive” much
less be it. few are in tune with my type. i leave no doubt that i’m an
alpha female who only submits to an alpha male. he will recognize me,
I’m sure and make me his.....
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i feel the need to say, that joining this site started very rocky--meeting so many who hid in the crevices in society, for a reason. but now, i have the honor of saying i've met a few people who have been worth my time--not because we played, but because they have become confidants that are so necessary in this lifestyle. many thanks and gratitude.
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Well stated commentary: Bending starts in the mind, not in the knees.
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I am Ronin. I am a strong heroic warrior-- directed, driven,passionate; however, it doesn’t change the fact that my rightful place and peace is only found under her Master.
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i totally, and competely realize that i am wound way too tight, and quick to judge and set parameters for things. it's a problem i have and this is why i seek a "handler" that will help release me. something of a "dom whisperer"...i want it. i feel like a kernel waiting to pop...i just need some gentle assistance. |
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I'm afraid I'm going to sound way too new age for my taste, but here goes. If you are seriously interested in me, it is important--imperative that you read intp.org. It describes my personality all too well. What you'll find is that i'm incredibly cerebral and that isn't always a good thing. You need to...you MUST be able to get in my head. It's not easy to do, but for those of you who enjoy the challenge, you are most welcome. This is not a threat, I realize it is who I am and a road block that needs to be navigated.
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had one of the best greetings ever. someone gets it! swoon: "I enjoyed reading your profile. Your word sense is quite nice. Isn't malleable a lovely word? It is so very evocative. It brings to mind that she wants and she craves but that, like clay, slow consistent working of the material is needed to warm it and make its transformation possible."
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more poignant readings from a dom:
I like intelligent, sexy, self-aware women.
I like seeing who they are underneath the persona they present to the world. I have learned that no matter how a woman appears on the outside, there is almost always something essential which remains hidden, perhaps even from herself. It may be a tenderness or a fierceness, some grief or lust, her playfulness or resolve. I want to go into that hidden, unexplored territory inside you. I want to use sensuality and pleasure to unlock you.
I like making women laugh, making them think, and making them wet. I like the feeling of intimacy when they entrust me with their secrets and part their legs for me. I like inspiring their surrender - to themselves and to me.
I am by nature and long training a mentor. I want to feel you thrive under my touch. I want you soaking wet, and at your highest potential in every area of your life.
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i read the following description from a dom and thought it to be beautiful, especially the last line:
Each of my lovers has taught me something new about women, herself, and the beauty of deep surrender. To me D/s is about trust, a trance, a sensual and emotional journey that we take together. I am not hugely into the scene and do not use a lot of contraptions and equipment. My style is much more psychological, emotional, conversational. I will charm you, seduce you, and - if you ask me very nicely - debauch you. |
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inspired upon reading a profile from a local dom who reminded me, despite what i outline--sometimes i don't have a choice:
i am upon my knees to realize that sometimes i don't have a choice in submission. it just is. when it all comes together. understanding. chemistry. attraction. it's an animalistic attraction that just is. it's not a figment of my imagination. i've had it happen with my first and only dom. he is now in another state, and at the end of the day i never curse him for lighting my passion on fire. i curse the fact that he made me realize possibilities. to know that when i think of him, i always want to preface his name with "master." how foolish of me to think that,prior to meeting him, that word was a joke-- an over the top description for some ego maniac. when it all comes together, it's a beautiful thing. |
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I'm learning. I'm learning! So sorry, I am only considering local folks and I'm afraid over 50 and under 30 really isn't my thing. I wonder if most people read this....I'm starting to gather the answer is "no." |
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do i seek LTR or frequent play? good question. i have yet to figure out the difference. at this point i describe it as "consistent." i wonder if that is yet a third definition. |
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| Age: 39 |
| WELWYN,
United Kingdom |
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