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I'm a recently single 25 year old woman, looking to date. I want a relationship with great and frequently kinky sex, that is otherwise egalitarian. The relationship part is important. I can find people to fuck but I am looking for a lot more than that. I'm BBW/fat/chubby/curvy, and I'm happy to be that way. If I describe myself with the word "fat," I don't mean it in a negative context. I'm a (sex-positive, of course) feminist. That doesn't mean I don't like being consensually abused. Rough sex turns me on and I embrace that part of myself. I'm a bit of nerd. I wear glasses and like words and proper grammar and office supplies a lot. I work with people and I love and am proud of my job but I am not bringing in the big bucks (yet) and try to live within my means. If money/staus is important to you, I'll be disappointing. I try to be completely open, so if you want to know more about me, ask away. *I want a long-term relationship. I'm not interested in long-distance. As nice as I'm sure some of you are, gentlemen, I'm not going to reply to messages from those whose profiles are nonexistent, who live far away, or who message me as if they already know me. I love sex as much as the next girl, but I'm not looking for casual encounters.*
10/26/2011 5:19:27 PM

I don't know what it is about this site. A lot of borderline rude and definitely presumptuous messages in 24 hours of signing up. It's frustrating and might lead to me deleting this account, but for now, these are the boundaries that I operate under. I doubt many offending gentlemen will bother reading this, since they don't seem to pay attention to my profile, but it's worth a shot.

  1. I'm not looking for 24/7 submission. In my everyday life I want and expect an equal partnership. I just happen to like kinky sex.
  2. I am 25. To be polite, I don't think a may/december romance is appropriate for my life right now. I want a boyfriend! A relationship that is vanilla outside of the bedroom! I will not date you if you are fucking 35 or older. (Though I might believe that you are impressively domly and sexually talented, if that make you feel better. But you are not for me.)
  3. Erm, not looking to be instantly dominated and fucked or objectified by every random collarme.com user. I want to date. I am not just here for sex. I will not be impressed when someone messages me to say explicit things. There must be plenty of people into online play and plenty more who never do anything in real life. Not me, please move along.
  4. No, I won't show you my tits. Try googling "tits" instead. Godspeed.

Lest you think I'm insane, or have unrealistic expectations: I came to this website in 2008 and made a profile similar to the one I have now. I ended up deleting the account soon after, and probably had gotten my share of obnoxious messages. But the one person I ended up meeting (after he sent a very well written and respectful email) had compatible interests, was sane, and honest. We had a relationship that was, more or less, a good one. It lasted 3 years. It's maybe the only reason I ended up opening an account here in addition to OKCupid.

 

So it's possible, I think, to find someone here who wants what I want, who thinks I'm cute and who I think is cute. Hopefully it's possible to do so with out being a raging bitch in the process. We shall see!
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