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About Eivarden
I'm now taken by QueenPenelope
I'm a submissive who is really just for "Role Reversal."
What Dommes call "Submissive" is not what I am.
(What I am, is something they say is NOT REAL SUBMISSION, but in reality it is just one of many types.)
I'm not looking for a Domme, I'm looking for a Leader.
I only find myself submissive to someone who is equal or better than me. NOT to someone who pretends they deserve submission, just because they can get it.
A Domme thinks she is better for many reasons, including comments like "I have hundreds of male submissives asking me out every single day, I can do as I please!"
Anyone can just tell someone else to do as they say.
A Leader with leadership skills, and loves to lead is the type of person I'm attracted to.
I want to be at her side, as her partner, helping her accomplish anything that needs to be accomplished.
The Teamwork between a Leader and a sub is the relationship I'm interested in.
I might not cross-dress, be a Tran-sexual or Transgendered, but when I hear Dommes give them shit, and say "If I wanted to date a woman, I would date a Real Woman."
They know damn well no person chooses their sex.
I know damn well I wouldn't hate a woman who wanted to dress as a man, act like one, and even be called a man.
I would love them regardless. (Though I do like long hair, but it doesn't matter if it's a male or female, I think long hair looks good in both genders.)
Then some Dommes say "They only dress/act like girls, because they view being female, is the only way to be submissive."
Some probably think that way, But for people like myself, I'm not female because I like the color pink, or because I like skirts, or because I like aggressiveness, or because I like assertiveness.
I am me. Someone who happens to like those things.
YOU are the one labeling those traits as girly, and me making "girly" things a sign of submission.
Plenty of those very same cross-dressers they insult, also happen to treasure femininity so much, they just want to also be what they idolize.
Frankly I've given up on sites like this, because Dommes are just not the type of people I can respect.
I'm just here to read, learn, and more often than not, get annoyed and leave the site for a few days. (Aka, "I refuse to respond, you just want wank material!" No reason to bother chatting on a site around kink and it's people.)
I doubt I'll ever want to get into a relationship again.
But then again, despite not wanting a relationship, I can never be 100% on this. As we know, love can't always be controlled.
But I do have a balance to keep me in check, even if I do grow some crush, all I have to do is mention a little detail about my phobia, and she will lose interest. (This isn't something I'll post online, since people never take me seriously about it.)
(To be updated, I spent 2 hours writing my "about me", only to have the browser crash, lose it all, and too lazy to retype it again.)
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