Eightandwide

Hi. I have been thinking a lot about BDSM recently. This is kind of new to me, but the idea of having a woman bound and at my complete control is somewhat arousing. I am also finding myself intrigued and aroused at the thought of mild flogging .. particularly the breast area and forced orgasm. I would like to find a woman to help me explore this new craving.
I should point out that I don't like to inflict pain .. I much prefer to create pleasure .. but a little sting to prepare you and make the pleasure more enjoyable is a different story.
I am also intrigued by powerful women who can take command .. I'm not talking about rude follow my orders type commands .. I'm talking about I know what I want and how to get it and my confidence permeates me so fully that it shows in everything I do type powerful women .. if you don't understand that .. then it isn't you.