Collarspace.com

The time has come to put a longer profile up. This is actually a new profile, even though I have been here for a while under a different name. The reason for me doing this is that I am moving to a new area. I often search for new members in a given location as a way to look at people’s profiles, and I assume most other people do too. So here is a new profile. As they say, please read the whole profile. I will try to be pithy. First, I am big on not wasting people’s time. You be too. One thing I am looking for is discretion, both personally and professionally. Sorry if this offends anyone, it probably will. But it is the way it is in my life. As I get to know an individual better, I will open up about this. So take some time to get to know me, it will be worth it. And besides that, I know a lot of you all out there are in the same boat, I have talked with and met with lots of you who are. So let’s move on. On to the fun stuff. I am not big on grocery lists as a way of finding people, but look at the list of my likes and dislikes, it is up to date, accurate and pretty inclusive. But to want to meet someone and get to know them, I think the two (or more) people have to have some things in common and maybe even like each other enough to sit down and eat dinner together. So rather than a grocery list, I will say I am intelligent, articulate, creative and dynamic. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I am inventive, imaginative and like to push hard, both in the vanilla world and the BDSM world. You can see I identified as a switch. This bears some explanation. I have been interested and active in D/s and BDSM pretty much my whole life, even before puberty (yes, really). I think I am hard-wired with these interests. The thing that first got my interest was female submission. As I grew older, my interests widened to include both female and male submission, but my actual activities tended to male submissive situations only. So I have a lot of experience in that area. But I also like to go back to my roots so to speak. I have not had as much experience in that as in male submission, but my interest is keen. To clarify, I am not necessarily looking for one single person with whom to experience both ends of the spectrum, although I am open to it. I would be happy to find a like-minded Domme, or a like-minded female sub. Or both in separate individuals. In summary, I am looking for one who is intelligent and likes to push hard. One who understands about being discrete. And who likes at least some of the same things as I have on my grocery list. I want to meet in person and play, and am not looking for cyber. I am not looking for an LTR, but neither am I averse to getting to know only one person. I will be making contact with you based on your profile, so I look forward to talking to you in more detail and on a more personal basis than this blasted profile. I also invite you to contact me if you like my profile and want to talk further. Regards. Eight1000m