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I'm submissive by nature and looking to serve a dominant mistress, or possibly master/tv/ts. I'm very into spanking, flogging, bondage, restraint, nipple-torture, ropework,  watersports, and giving oral. I'm also into erotic emails, PVC, cross-dressing, nudism, assplay, verbal abuse, exhibitionism, wet clothing, slavery, and doing what I'm told.

I'm interested in people of all ages, and don't have any particular physical type in mind. I tend to be quite shy and quiet at first meeting, but it shouldn't take long to get past that.  I'm also interested in performing online/long distance at first, though it takes a special mistress to make this really cruel.

I'm a quiet, laidback person by nature, and I'm into mostly arty, creative things, whether enjoying films, art galleries, literature, or writing and messing about with web design. In appearance I'm nothing strange, dressing in a casual/trendy way, short dark hair, medium build. It's only when you get to know me that you'll find the truth.

3/9/2007 4:16:45 PM
I've not been on here for a while; I've mainly been on other sites, and then took some time to think over what I'm wanting.  I know I'm submissive, and I want to worship women.  So I must offer myself in whatever way I can be of service.  I hope I can find someone cruel and ingenious who will take me beyond shame, fear, and egotism.  Freedom is doing what I am told, knowing that this will make my mistress happy.  I only hope that I will find someone strong, imaginative, and special, though these are often inward qualities that lie within the most ordinary-seeming woman.
2/9/2006 1:17:08 PM
I was at the rope bondage workshop in Edinburgh last weekend.  It was the first BDSM scene event I'd ever been to, but I figured it was a reasonable place to start.  Luckily I had a friend to go with, and I did a bit of tying up, and spent rather longer being tied up.

So I've gone from being a complete novice to someone who can tie a few knots (assuming I don't forget it all) and wants to practice.  Also, the being tied up was good too, though rope over jeans and t-shirt isn't quite ideal.  I need lots of rope.  And a partner in crime, because this really is a game you can't play on your own.
1/13/2006 3:49:55 PM
I've been living the quiet life the past few weeks; I think in midwinter when it's cold and dark I don't feel like getting up to so much, I don't even have the energy to dress up and dance around singing "I'm pretty, I'm so pretty." I need something new to spur me on (not New Year's Resolutions, they're long forgotten).  Probably someone with a riding crop and the threat of being forced to listen to James Blunt for all eternity.  I like pain, humiliation, and pushing things up my bottom, but there's something about tasteful easy-listening music that makes me want to scrape forks across stuff (plates not skin).  There are many humiliation possibilities there, but I'm keeping quiet.  Unlike James.


11/17/2005 1:26:31 PM
I still don't really know if I'm a dom or sub.  I'm so passive in my everyday life, and I love to perform and expose myself and do disgusting things.

But maybe I'd like to have a toy to play with.  If I could find a very very passive woman I could be dom.  Someone I could tie up, gag, and play with. I only want to play.  I might become a tough guy in real life too.