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??I'm an athletic, dark-haired male.? I have longer hair (not as long as it used to be!) and I still have all of it, none is gray.? I used to have some very kinky friends in years past, some I've lost contact with, some I've lost :(?

I feel a great?respect for the inherent beauty of the human form and work hard to take care of myself.? I have a strong need to be clean (no, not language) safe and respectful.? I have a deep streak of silliness, sometimes even during play.? I love to meet people that like to run, practice yoga, bicycle, snowboard, rock climb, wakeboard, hike and more.

?Rudeness, except, of course,?in play, causes me to avoid you.? I've already blocked a Domme who wanted to judge my relationship.? If she can't respect me in conversation, how stupid would I be to trust her to respect my limits?? I feel that your attitude towards others is a great indicator of who you really are and sets the tone for all of your relationships.?? I suspect she's less of a domme and more an old-school bitch.

?I love spanking,? humiliation, latex, bondage, corsets and other restrictive clothing,? sexy and revealing lingerie, skirts, strong women, petite women, all sizes, within reason, from thin to plump.? I dislike most extremes.? My affection and respect for the human body leads me away from any permanent actions during play.? If you choose to scar, tattoo, modify your body, I will respect your desires, but I will not join you.? I don't hate adornments like piercings and such, just major modifications.? I am a weightlifter and enjoy yoga often, but I'm not a steroid monster nor even a steroid user.? That's an extreme to me.

My attraction to some textures is very potent.? Rubber/latex, leather, PVC, the touch of another's skin, lace, silky, satiny, shiny are all go direct to my erotic sensibility.? It seems very strange to me that a particular texture can cause such a reaction in me, strange and wonderful nonetheless.? I can also be very attracted to scents, none too specific, but I hate six different scents (cologne, hairspray, deodorant, conditioner, fabric softener, bath soap) all mixed together and far too strong.? Extremes again, huh?? If I can smell your fucking fabric softener when I pass twenty feet away on my bicycle, how is that different from screaming in my ear or shining bright lights in my eyes?? I find them all to be rude and moreover, terrifically inconsiderate.?

"
Moving parts in rubbing contact require lubrication to avoid excessive wear. Honorifics and formal politeness provide lubrication where people rub together"?
-Robert Heinlein


I like smart people.? I always have something to learn and if i can get it from friends all the better.? Intellectual intercourse is easily as good as the sexual type, but it can take some knowledge, or least thought, to keep my interest, just like sex.? Smart women are best of all.? Tina Fey, Mmmmm.? Remember Danica McKellar (Winnie Cooper) from "The Wonder Years"?? She's got a degree in MATH!? Crazy hot besides.? How awesome is THAT!?!
? I have a great partner right now, but she is 100% vanilla and I have to respect that limit.? In addition, she is barely interested in sex anymore.? which leaves me looking for something to fill the need which has been neglected for?some time.? It certainly hasn't left, and it's not easy to hide.? She's understanding and approves, but she never wants to hear about anything.? Which means I AM available to play, but not for LTR.


This is an work in progress, so you WILL see it change and grow, it's by no means an exhaustive deion of me.? If you think I might be interested in something not listed, feel free, I will answer all the questions I can.? Questions lead to knowledge.

"Know Thyself" (Gnothi Seauton)
"Nothing in Excess" (Medan agan)
-two of the mottoes said to be inscribed at Delphi which were strong influences on Socrates.


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5/2/2014 9:05:55 AM
It's PENGUICON time again! I hope to meet a few of you kinky people there this year since last year I was so sick I missed the whole fucking event.
4/18/2014 5:50:03 AM

Too many people confuse society's support for their right to have an opinion with support for their choice to blab their ill-conceived, mindless nonsense everywhere and are shocked when we don't respect an opinion which is obviously without the smallest shred of rational forethought.

"Why would YOU ...

cut your hair?

wear that?

drive that car?

stick your face there?

let someone do that to you?

do that to someone?

dress like that?

when I find it totally disgusting!?!?"

is a class of question whose answer is self evident. I don't give even a single fuck about what you think I should do.

 

 

4/3/2014 9:13:26 AM

Feast or famine. It's been a while and suddenly two lovely little subbies in a week. Thanks for being naughty ladies. You'll be punished more in the future and love it.

4/22/2013 6:35:08 AM

PENGICON!