echoharmony


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	About echoharmony Please READ my profile BEFORE contacting me!!!! You would think this is obvious, but what is really obvious is when people contact me with some pre-written 'story' or introduction email, and it's clear they haven't bothered! Also, do NOT, under any circumstances, call me pet, good girl, slave, sub, or anything else. You don't know me, you have no right to call me anything but my name. NOTE Men over 41 need NOT apply. Thank You. If you're going to treat me with disrespect, don't bother contacting me. I'm not a doormat. I will not call you Sir, I will not call you Master, and I will not grovel. Now, what I'm looking for. I AM NOT LOOKING TO BE A SLAVE! Nor am I looking to be controlled, trained, or used. I'm looking for a best friend, a lover, someone who I can share myself entirely with. But also someone I have to answer to. Someone who understands, as a disciplinarian, the importance of consistancy when it comes to punishment and discipline. someone who always knows exactly how far to go. I am looking for a DISCIPLINARIAN, not necessarily a DOMINANT. I am not looking to SERVE anyone. I am interested in a relationship where Domestic Discipline is implemented on a consistant basis.

Well, I was in the hospital for a few days earlier this month. :( I've never been that sick in my whole life! Ugh. Now I'm just waiting fearfully for the flood of medical bills. Happy holidays to me, ho ho humbug.

Nothing really new on the search for someone in the lifestyle. I never thought it would be this hard to find someone who's looking for the same thing I am, who isn't old enough to be my father or lives on the other side of the country/world.

Oh, my glasses also snapped in half, so I've been unable to really see what I'm doing for over a month now. Yeah, things have just been...awesome. =/

Anyone want to hire me as a professional submissive for a bit? *LOL*

Life keeps throwing one curve ball after another. My hip has been injured since February so I've been on medical leave from work. I'm doing physical therapy but it's slow going. I've lost two friends in the last 2 days. What am I doing to make myself feel better? Internet window shopping! haha. If I was rich, these are the sorts of clothes I'd be wearing: http://www.modcloth.com/storefront/wishlists/966817 and no, I'm not posting that link because I want anyone to buy me anything. I'm NOT a gold digger, I'm not trying to get people to feel sympathetic with me or anything like that. I posted it so that people can see what kind of fashion I'm into :) I tend to like funky, retro, unique type things. I'm the kind of person who will see something and say "OMG It's so ugly, I love it!" Yeah, I'm weird.

Life has a funny way of kicking you when you're down, yeah? There's so much going on in my life right now, a lot of it out of my control but still affecting me. It's all I can do to keep my head above water. My search here continues, but the prospects look as dim as ever.

Go Gryffindor colours. Hah I forgot I set it up like that. Anyway. I've been on this site for years now, and I can't believe the things I see anymore. What the Hell is up with all of these supposed 'Pro-Dommes' that demand 'tribute' from potential slaves? Utter bullshit. I have another term for them. GOLD DIGGERS. Don't fall for it. A relationship should never be based on financial transactions. If that's your thing, go to Nevada and one of the brothels. At least you'll get some ass.

Anyway. I thought I was pretty specific about what I'm looking for, but with the wide array of people contacting me....I begin to wonder. Sorry but if you're over the age I specify on my profile, please don't contact me thinking that you're 'the exception' because I'm sorry to break it to you, but you're probably not.

That is all for now.

I am looking for someone in my own age range in southern california who is as serious about implementing spanking/domestic discipline in a relationship as I am. How hard is that?!?

Wow, I haven't written in this thing in forever. I guess I'm just getting tired of searching, and searching, and never finding what I'm looking for. You wouldn't think it'd be that hard! Someone in my own age bracket, who's as into spanking/domestic discipline as I am. That's what it comes down to. Simple, right? Not so much, it would appear. Ah, well. Plenty of amusement with all the fake people in the meantime.

Okay so three of the blokes that I was talking to are no longer in the running. One was being way too cryptic and vague in his answers; one stopped contacting me, and the other just...went crazy? Still not sure about that one, but whatever. C'est la vie.

I did just reconnect with a friend who I haven't spoken to in, blimey, a couple years? So I'm happy about that. One can never have enough friends in the lifestyle, and I missed him.

So the search continues. *dons Sherlock Holmes cap and wanders off*

Weee, Gryffindor colours. Hah. I rock. So I completely forgot that I even had a journal here, and will probably forget in about 10 minutes.

I had my journal de-activated here because the majority of emails I got were highly negative. I reactivated it maybe a week or two ago, and things have been a bit better this time around. I'm more specific and concise about what I'm looking for, which is nice. It makes it easier for me to weed through the people who don't offer what I seek, and don't seek what I offer. Other than that, my search is going all right. I'm speaking to several people right now that I might be compatible with. We'll see how it goes.

*Sigh* Just because I'm new to this site doesn't mean I'm new to the lifestyle. I've been on bondage and alt for at least a couple years. I'm not stupid. I know how to take care of myself. While I appreciate the offers, I do NOT need a mentor or teacher. Nor do I need men telling me that they're my Master. Don't be pretentious.

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