Hello, I am a submissive looking for other BDSM individuals (Male Doms) who find themselves in a delicate situation (relationship) but nevertheless yearn for a meaningfully way to connect with someone. Perhaps it is a long shot to find someone who is attached and not interested in changing their current situation. I'm not looking for a relationship - already have one :) I'm currently very happy with my life and work yet that "something - something" is sadly missing. Updated: I have received several responses and have come to realize that the ones very close to my location makes me a little nervous. I think a little distance may be more appropriate. I'm in SF.
I purposefully left out information because I don't want to waste anyone's time and need to be discreet. However, I'm more than happy to share details with the right person.
Most of us, have those certain kinks that gives us chills on the back of our necks. I have several, but one huge one is older, mature Doms. I don't know exactly what it is but there is something that sets mature Dom apart from their counterparts. Perhaps it is the wisdom that comes with age or the confident/ reassurance of who they are. And no I don't have a "father complex" - I'm a pretty well grounded individual. So please be at least in your fifties and beyond if this ad sparks an interest.
I'm not expecting to find someone in the same situation - but willing to "explore" more than friends with someone I can trust. I am currently working on establishing an "open" relationship w/ my current partner.
