Collarspace.com

DESPERATELY SEEKING:

someone that's sane

that will help me find my pain thresholds
that's kinky as hell
but seeks to dominate outside the bedroom as well

....oh yes, please be disease and crazy and wife that thinks your monogamous free


that out of the way.

i'm black, i'm a bbw, i'm a professional, and overall, respectable member of society.

i've had an interest in D/s for over 10 years, and am just now working up the nerve to try and do something about it.

i am very wet behind the ears, and yet, not likely to fall for any old line.

i'm not into race play... at all... don't message me if you are.

i'd prefer to chat online (so please be able to talk about something other than kink at least 50% of the time before messaging me) to build comfort before meeting. if we do decide to meet, i'm really only looking for friends for slightly more than casual encounters as i figure out where i fit into all of this. That is not to say that there's no possibility that perhaps, if the moon is in alignment with venus and the tide is right, things couldn't develop into something more. but it's not what i seek.

p.s. if you have a gf or bf or husband that thinks your monogomous, not interested either :P
11/12/2009 7:34:28 PM
alright, in case there's any mistake, or expectations, let me put this out there.

i'm perfectly willing to meet people, in real life, given a few things

1) we have to have had some conversation... real time chat, frequent messages back and forth while on CM, whatever... some conversation

2) that conversation has to have intrigued me enough to want to meet you.  seriously though, i got enough stuff to do without putting everything on hold to meet with someone because they tell me they're a Dom, they like to travel, and oh yeah... they're male.

3) i have to be available.  let's get real, i'm a mom, a single one, i know how to get someone to watch my kid... but it won't be at the drop of a hat... and there may be some weeks (imagine this) where i have too much going on to go out

so, if all that makes me fake, so be it... but honestly, like a message thread of 8 messages total... i don't decide i want to get coffee with someone just from their profile, and not that much more information comes across from such a short conversation.

to each their own...
3/9/2009 5:21:19 PM
so talked to someone... didn't work out.

still out here... still looking... will be patient, i believe eventually, i will find what i seek
1/21/2009 6:01:06 PM
So....

what to say.  currently talking to someone and i don't do distractions well, so... not looking at the moment.

leaving my profile as is though because it was pretty damn funny to me ;)

btw... love making friends, Dom,sub,whatever.  if you're respectful and feel inclined to drop me a line, please, feel free
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