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First of all, if you're male, be assured your messages will be sent to my bulk folder. I'm only looking for women in my area, though with the right person I would pursue something online.
All the relationships I've been in since I was 13 have had an aspect of D/s to them, though I began fantasizing about such things when I was much younger, so it's quite a part of who I am. With my first girlfriend, I was mainly top, but toward the end of our relationship she started taking the top role and I really enjoyed being a sub. In my relationships since then I've experienced switching roles a lot and I'm currently very into being submissive. Right now I'm in a serious relationship with a guy whom I love, but he encourages me to continue exploring my sexuality and I'm looking for a Dominant or switch female under 30 to dom me. I'm looking for either play, a learning experience, or a more serious-type relationship. My boy would not be involved...unless of course you wanted him to be ;] I'm also interested in learning how to be a better top. Things I'm especially into:
-Spanking
-Riding crops
-Masochism
-Breath control
-Being immobilized
-Tease & denial
-Sensation play
-Wax play
-Aftercare--I have an intense subspace I go into, I need good aftercare after a session especially to avoid subdrop
-and of course...communication and having fun Hard limits:
-Anal
-Confinement hoods
-Needle play
-Watersports/scat
-Age play/animals
Soft limits:
Knifeplay/other types of edgeplay (with the right person).
On the vanilla side of things... I love photography (and by the way, I'm looking for models for shoots) and singing. I'm a student in college trying to figure out what to do with my life. I'm rather artsy and love to have fun as well as be spontaneous and travel. However like every other college student, I'm basically broke, and so my options for travel and other things are limited. I love good movies and good music and cuddling. Bottom (heh) line is... This is probably way longer than it needs to be, but what can I say? I have a lot to say about myself. Drop me a line if you think we'll be a good fit.
AluraEmbrey
 
 Age: 18
 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania