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Greetings, I want you to know something about me, it is very important, so read carefully OK? Here goes, my number one, non-negotiable hard limit is; I don't deal with "Stupid". Please note, this means stupid is a hard limit for me. If this limit offends you, then it probably applies to you.
If you are married, or otherwise attached, you can not meet my needs, so don't waste your time, or my time, thank you.
I am in search, of something real and meaningful. I am not looking for a relationship where all I do is jump at a barked order, or quiver in fear. I have been told this doesn't make me a "real" whatever it is they think I should be. I'm OK with that, I am not defined by what a stranger thinks of me. Relationships are tricky, and I want mine to be based in reality. This concept seems to be a hard for many to grasp, which makes sense when you remember I had to adopt my hard limit, so I just it and move on.
I seek a connection, nothing more, nothing less. In order to have that we must be honest with each other, and for me that means we must respect each other, and be able to communicate, in an open and safe manner. I am in no rush, I will not settle. So, until something happens, I wait, I wait for it to find me. I have a good life, I want to share that life with someone who also has a good life.
See you in the funny pages... me
10/6/2011 8:29:52 PM

I am moving back to WA at the end of this month.... It will be nice getting back home!

8/10/2011 4:26:29 PM

Well, I have been getting unsolicited criticisms of my profile, again.  It seems there are some self-proclaimed "masters" out there who feel the need to make sure I know they think they are superior to me, just by way of having a penis, or a self-proclaimed title of "master thunder pants".   Why do I threaten them so? 

I am not here to teach anyone anything about how w/o both men and women the human race would cease to exist, or how we each fill a need of the other, not my job. However, I am here to say that just because I don't fit in to your narrow minded world of what a "slave" or "submissive" should be, doesn't mean I am not one. 

Just because you don't like what you read on my profile doesn't mean that it's wrong.  Just pass me by, leave me be.  I don't contact anyone who's profile is not up to my standards, why do some insist they must contact me to inform me that they disapprove?  

Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy a good exchange of ideas, and a discussion where we don't always see things the same, that's how wonderful things can happen, when different ideas are exchanged, and open minds share thoughts.  But, if you just want to criticize me, then do so in the privacy of your own mind, and keep it to yourself, and go find that perfect slave, because I'm not it. 

4/9/2011 1:24:27 PM

OK, to be clear.....I do NOT want to be "pimped out" I am NOT interested in living in a cage in your basement.  I am NOT interested in being used as a farm animal, and last but not at all least, I am NOT going to cave to your demands just because you have given yourself some manly sounding name.  My orientation is more than mere words, and I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else for that matter.  Also, if you want to write, please do, but lets do better than a copy and paste, OK?? Thank you!!

3/28/2011 9:45:51 AM

So, some say "hard limits will be respected", what if one of my hard limits is "domestic service"? I really think if someone wants a maid, they should just hire someone to do that job and not impose it as a requirement for a relationship...  But that's just me, and where oh where is that Tony Stark, Dr. Seuss mix? :-)

1/1/2011 8:27:05 AM

I think the man I am looking for is a cross between Tony Stark and Dr. Seuss..I wonder if such a man is out there...

12/26/2010 4:47:08 AM

I think it is bad manners to ask for a photo without offering (or having) a photo to share yourself... There are many people (me included) who don't have a photo up for a reason, of course there is a photo to share... however sharing it is not something I do lightly...thank you...

10/30/2010 6:06:05 AM

~~Is this really all there is~~

10/15/2010 5:00:54 AM
~~I don't like creepy profiles, you know who you are~~
10/7/2010 5:16:14 PM
~~Really looking forward to Kinky Kollege in a couple  of weeks~~
6/16/2010 8:30:57 PM
Tempted to type ~~blah blah blah~~~so I gave in to that temptation~~I believe that there are times it is good to give in to such things, don't you?
5/17/2010 12:20:43 PM
I was once told by a good friend that if nothing else happens by being in the BDSM community, my view on relationships would come to be more complex...that is remaining to be true....
5/16/2010 4:46:57 PM
I know it's a good post when it causes someone I don't know to email me and call me names :-) 
5/16/2010 8:38:37 AM
Is it wrong to think if someone wants "financial and domestic" service I should tell them to get a job and hire a maid? I am not looking for a sugardaddy, and I wont be anyone's sugarslave....*smiles all sweet and slave like*
5/10/2010 7:44:30 PM
if you can't take the time to spell the word "you" as opposed to the letter "u"... then really... you don't have time for me...that goes for just about every three letter word out there.... if you have access to a full key board, then I suggest you make use of it...
5/2/2010 7:56:52 AM
I really do think I'm funny, even if you don't :)
2/28/2010 4:01:13 PM
Do people look at the pictures they post? If so, do they get feed back on them? Sometimes I wonder....what the hell....really...that is what you want people to see as a 1st impression...really?? I think there also needs to be a "bad pic" filter in the email system as well....
2/12/2010 10:43:53 AM
i am discovering that i am much more of a slave than i ever realized and in this discovery i am taken by one and only seek friends at this time
10/13/2009 9:10:31 PM
Wouldn't it be nice if the mail filter options included "block stupid people" ? 

Seriously, if you can't go more than one email without talking about sex... Don't bother writing to me..if you can't bring yourself to spell out words that are three letters or less...please don't waste your typing time on writing me....if you can't understand why I don't post a picture on  this site... then you wont have the patience or desire to understand me...
9/26/2009 12:59:17 PM
Proposed profile change:
"Well educated submissive seeks intelligent sincere man for mutual real relationship, requirements are an interest to meet, or at least chat on the phone, before 100 emails are exchanged." 
The only question remaining is just where in the profile that would fit....
1/9/2009 7:51:13 AM
If you are a part of my vanilla world, then there is a good chance you will not be a part of my kinky world, but if you can not fit in to my vanilla world, then you will never be in my kinky world.I do not reduce my standards just because we share some kinks.  You shouldn't either.  I like honest people, I like caring people and I like it even better when they are kinky people too!!  
susan930
 
 Age: 38
 Pasadena, Texas