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About DVS
Hello. I'm DVS. I've known I'm a dominant personality for most of my life. Through the years, I've experimented with others, and advanced my skills. That's one good reason to meet an experienced Dom. He knows what he's doing. My ideal match? Looks are not overly important to me. Sure, I'm a man and I'd prefer a pretty face, but let me be the judge of that and not what someone else has told you. Also, hair and eye color isn't an issue. A compatible personality and liking the same things are what's important. There are many ways of seeing the beauty in a woman. Although, she should be HWP, so please understand. Photo exchange is requested. If your profile has photos, that's great. But, if not, I will request a photo exchange. Sorry, men are visual creatures. My ideal match should enjoy bondage, gags, spankings (OTK, paddles, floggers, etc.), anal sex, electroplay (violet wand, TENS), and enjoy performing oral. It seems I have a taste for several things and to some I might appear scary, but simply meeting and talking to me should explain a lot. I'm far from brutal or scary. I just like kinky fun. EVERYTHING is strictly SS&C, and all hard limits are completely respected. I might want to test soft limits at times, but not without talking it over with you, first. I have my sexual urges, but nothing overpowers the basic rules set between us. If you want more information on this, don't hesitate to ask. I enjoy mentally stimulating a submissive's mind. I've always known the brain is the largest sex organ. Where the mind goes, the body is almost forced to follow. This, together with bondage, is an interesting thing. A bound submissive's mind can be tempted and even tormented, when she only knows what I want her to know. Her mind goes into overdrive trying to figure out what my intentions are. And, a bound submissive is helpless against my touch. Forced orgasms or denied orgasms are just a couple of ways I can torment her. Physical stimulation and mental stimulation used together can literally confuse someone and cause all sorts of sensual overtones in the body and mind. It's really difficult to explain. You have to experience it to understand the full effect. If you know of someone who's experienced this type of play, ask them if they can explain it. I'll bet they will also say you just have to experience it for yourself. Are you new to BDSM? If so, I go slowly, because I know most prefer to learn at their own pace, instead of someone else's. And, learning about BDSM is special, when done in a way that allows you to experience all of the different nuances and sensations. Nothing is more fun for me than assisting someone as they experience new and exciting feelings and emotions. Those first shivers can be priceless. As for my own hard limits, I don't like knives, needles or cutting. I'm not into blood. No scat, golden showers, animals or children. I'm drug and disease free and expect the same from you. I'm a social drinker and a non-smoker. I prefer something similar in you, but anything that doesn't interfere with our time together is fine, within reason. At this point in my life, I find being flexible about things works best. It can be the key to meeting the right person. While my search is for a special lady to be my friend and lover, I know that doesn't come without accepting things I might not have been willing to when I was younger. I know that being totally demanding in my expectations could force the right person to shy away, and for the wrong reasons. So, I guess you could say I'm mellowing with age. I'm open to the type of relationship that might happen...training sessions, play parties, etc., or just good friends. But, ultimately, I'm looking for that one submissive lady that's just for me. Once I find her, any and all other relationships are finished. It might sound corny, but I'm in search of that one woman to complete me. I'm a one woman man. Just as a little tease, I write BDSM erotica and it's published on the web. If you want to read any of it, I'll give you a link. My stories can give you a look inside my sexual mind and what drives my desires. I write about what I enjoy doing. I'm a creative and experienced dominant. I'm intelligent and I feel I have the ability to understand submissive desires. I'm also very fair and kind, and I have a good sense of humor. You might see this description of myself as arrogance, and I can't change that. But if you can trust me, I think you'll understand more, once you have met me. I consider this profile only a place to start...to entice you to know more. It's impossible to put everything I have to offer in this space, and anyone who thinks otherwise is never going to be satisfied. I feel the same way about anyone I might meet on this site. It's not possible to put everything in a profile. Ultimately, we have to meet to see if we are compatible. The best way to get to know someone is just sitting somewhere quiet and talking. Chatting on the Internet is OK, but you don't experience eye contact, body language or that special chemical connection that can happen between two people. So don't judge too harshly, early on. We'll both have strong emotions going through our heads. I know you'll be listening to everything I say and sizing up my every word, so if I say something or don't say something you consider a red flag, be sure it wasn't just my nerves getting the best of me, or even your nerves getting the best of you. Everybody is different. In this "meat market" way of meeting, perfect expectations are unwise, in the beginning. You might delete that connection with a special person you were meant to meet. To those I've sent messages to and didn't respond? How are you ever going to know what's possible, if you don't communicate? And to those who did respond, but decided not to reciprocate my advances? That's your choice and I respect that choice. I appreciate that you responded to my message. There is more to me that I haven't included here. I have a life outside of BDSM, as I'm sure you do, too. I hope to share more about me, as I find out more about you. One important thing about me is I'm a musician and have been for over 40 years. It's entrenched in my life and that will never change. So, if you can't share me with my love of music, don't contact me. PLEASE NOTE: If you're looking for a sugar daddy, a game player, an abuser, or someone who doesn't respect others, don't bother to contact me. If there's anything I've said here that you need more information on, you only need to ask. And, if there's something I haven't mentioned in this lengthy spiel that you need to know, please feel free to ask. I don't want anything left in the dark, if at all possible. Thanks for checking out my profile. If nothing else, I hope I aroused your curiosity. DVS |
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I've been gone for a while, and even though I'm back, I don't expect much from this site. But, I know I can't say something like that without giving it another try. So, I'm back. Before, any contacts seemed to be from a bot, a pro, or just from people who were curious and weren't serious about meeting me. While I understand each of these as a necessary part of the game, I do hope more serious people to contact me this time around.
I understand you must be willing to give of yourself and to put it bluntly, it takes a lot of courage to contact someone on a site like this. Looking at this from a submissive's point of view, I'm not sure I could do it, so I'm glad I'm on the other side of this whole deal. But, I would like to say that once you make the initial contact, everything after that is easier. And besides it being easier, just think of the sexual fulfillment we'll both enjoy, if we make a connection that lasts.
So, do us both a favor. Take that first step and see if we are compatible. Sure, we might not be, but unless you either answer my request to talk or you initiate a conversation with me, how are we ever going to meet? And if we don't meet, we will never, ever know. |
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A lot of people think the teen years are the years we all explore and let loose our sexual desires, to learn what we enjoy and what we crave from another. In reality, that isn't how it works. Sure, I think we all try to do that, but in our teens most of us don't even know what is possible, let alone what our own minds might want or our bodies need. A lot of the time, it takes someone who already knows the lusty possible ins and outs to teach those who don't have a clue, but would probably desire it all, if only introduced to it. Society has made that mostly impossible. So, a lot of people live their lives only in their own sexual thoughts, because when they wanted their satisfaction or someone else wanted theirs, the word pervert always came to mind. Thank the religious right for that. And, I wonder how perverted their minds are, while they chastise others for the same thing. Think of how the world would have been different, if everybody could find someone that mirrored their sexual desires. There would be less stress, less tension, and most likely less molestation and murder as a result. Sexual aggression would be a controlled kink, between two consenting adults, both hungering for the same thing. Ah, the perfect world.
But, instead, we have a repressed world, where sex is denied, so it's then taken by force, with complete disregard for another's welfare, even to the point of murder. The same lustful satisfaction could be created in a scene and people's desires could be nurtured instead of condemned. And they wonder why we have mass murderers and rapists. |
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You know, it never fails...people will always amaze me. How they choose to do or not do something, say or not say something, etc. Life can be decided by a simple phrase, spoken or unspoken, that seems to be a "tell all" and a choice is made. I am also amazed how quickly someone will make such a decision, sometimes life or death, on one of these phrases, or maybe on a hunch...or a whim. Maybe it's only a feeling that builds inside, or one that doesn't. Every day, people pass us in the street, and we sometimes don't even notice, eyes turning away at just the last second. What was going through their mind, at that moment in time? Why did they choose to look away? Was it fear? Or maybe they were too shy to share just a glance, with a stranger. A smile would give away far too much. Or it might be a simple moment of silence that's shared...smiles exchanged, then they turn and watch the numbers on the elevator, waiting for that one to light up. Not soon enough, the doors open and life continues. The same happens here, but in a different way. Eyes never meet. Chemistry is never tested. Two people share little more than a light conversation, and then it ends. Maybe both know why it ends, and maybe only one knows. For whatever reason, little more is shared than what they might when meeting on a city street. Actually, it's even less, because a smile is so telling...or just that moment when their eyes meet. Pleasant conversation, then as if the elevator doors opened, life continues. |
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Do you enjoy anal sex? Can you even admit that you do? Do you like being taken with force? It's your most private orfice and that is a large part of the forbidden desire of anal sex. And, the position for anal sex is normally very lewd. Also, while you are being taken that way, you can't really do much but take it.
Also, that hole is smaller, so it is more painful, at least in the beginning. And, it requires lube, if you are going to do it right and be safe. And, because of the lube, even if you don't want to be taken there, you aren't going to stop me. If you resist, that is even more fun for me. Any resistance will tighten that little hole and I will enjoy taking it that much more. Most animals have sex that way, and they can appear very violent in that act. The biting of shoulders and forcing the female to submit is a normal part of the act for them. Anal sex is very close to animal sex. The position is even referred to as "doggie style". With you in this position, I sometimes like to put my hands on either side of your head, and ride you hard. And, you are kept in that position by my hands being there, not able to move forward or to either side. You have to take it. See, anal sex is my favorite thing. And, it just comes to me naturally. You can almost look at it as you are forced into a situation you don't want, but part of you deep inside makes you do it, because you need it. And if forced to ask for it in some way, you are made to express your need for it. If you're bound and gagged, it's more fun for me, because you have no choice but to take what I give you and how I give it to you. Only whimpers and muffled moans escape from the gag. I force you to strip while I watch you, and then get on your knees and lube your own ass. Then, I lock the shackles on you and whisper how I'm going to make your tight little ass larger for you. Then, I nibble on your ear lobe as I breathe hot air into your ear. I stick my tongue in your ear to make it wet. Then I bite your lobe again, almost to the point of too much pain. I reach under you and find your nipples and twist them between my fingers, causing you to wince in pain. I run one hand down between your bound legs to find your clit. I just rub it lightly, to make sure you are aching for it. I know you want me to fuck your pussy and fuck it hard. But the lube is in your ass hole, so you know it isn't your pussy that's getting any attention. I spank your ass until both cheeks are nice and red and have red hand prints all over. I love fucking a nice red ass. You yelp with each swat of my hand, and jerk from the pain. As I continue to spank you with one hand, I snake my other hand down and stick it inside your wet pussy, but only for a very short time. Just enough to get your attention. Then, I get on my knees behind you and let my hard cock bounce on your red ass cheeks. Just to let you know how hard it is. I watch that glistening hole twitch, in anticipation. It's such a pretty picture, wet with lube, between your spanked ass cheeks. I take hold of my cock and place it at that tiny little hole, moving it in very small circles at the entrance. Then, I grab your hips and slowly inch it in. You groan and try to raise up, because it feels too big and you begin to panic. I push you back down, with my hand, although you couldn't raise up very far because of your shackles. You start to say something, but you catch your breath as the head of my cock pops past your tight anal opening. You gasp as it starts to slowly inch it's way up your most private passage. You feel so submissive, taken this way. You love being forced to take it, bound in such a lewd position. You don't dare tell you love this, but you love it very much. The position, the pain, the bondage, the humiliation...it all comes together as one lustful feeling that washes over you. I thrust my hard cock as far as it will go into your ass, and you gasp again, not ready for its size. Your breath is short, you try to tighten your ass, testing my power. You melt into a kind of used submissive mode, as if you are being punished or tamed or trained. You want this to happen and you want it bad, but I'm still deep inside you, just watching you with your filled ass in the air. Finally, you can't stand it any longer and you yell to me "FUCK ME, DAMN IT...FUCK MY ASS." I laugh and lean over to whisper into your ear..."all in my own time, naughty little girl...all in my own time." You groan, because you want it NOW, and you know you have no control over it. You need your ass fucking to start, but you are mine to be used and used you will be. I lean over you and put my palms on the floor on either side of your head, so you don't move forward or from side to side. You are kept in position, so I can ram hard into your ass and you will take the whole force of my thrusts. Slowly, I pull my cock out of your ass, only to the very tip of the opening, then thrust it back to the very hilt, again. You whimper appreciation that the act has finally begun, but it isn't fast enough for your liking, and that whimper is also from need. Again, I slowly pull out to the edge of your ass, but this time, I pull completely out, only to push it right back in again and it chugs down as far as it will go. Again, I do this, and you feel like you are being entered anew, over and over again, as I push that tight little hole open each time. I whisper into your ear..."you like this, don't you? You need this, don't you? Such a naughty girl, all naked and bound in such a lewd position and getting her tight little ass fucked." I don't wait for an answer, but pull out again and again I re-enter that tight little hole and trust down against those red ass cheeks with a slap. You gasp at the feeling this causes, and I think I hear you breathe the word "yes", as I pull out and do it again. I tell you how I like to watch my hard cock as it slides effortlessly into your naughty little ass, punishing your little hole with animal like thrusts. You tell me you deserve this punishment, because you are my naughty little girl and mine to use for my pleasure. You ask me to make it hurt because you deserve it. My slut has been bad. You whimper as I begin to get faster with my fucking, and I slap your ass a few times as I fuck it. I raise up and grab your hips and fuck that way, then sometimes I lean forward, and give my whole weight against you and make you take it hard. You are on the hard wooden floor and the force of my fucking you makes you slide a little across the floor with each thrust. Because the floor was freshly waxed, your shoulders and knees squeak against it. I begin to fuck that little hole of yours even faster now, and I reach around and find your nipples and hold on to them as I fuck you. With each thrust, I pinch them, and pull them when I pull out. But, I see that you enjoy this too much so I stop, so not to give you too much pleasure. You are nearly beside yourself now, knowing it is getting to the point that you can't handle it. But, this is also the level you need it to be. Being taken this way excites you trememdously. My thrusting is faster, now, and I'm bouncing against your ass, as I start a rythum. A whiney sound is coming from your throat, as you feel my power grow inside you, and you sense my orgasm could be near. I grab hold of your waist and dig my fingers into your flesh as I shove faster and faster into your burning ass. I start to call you my naughty slut and my little punished whore, as I ram your ass faster and faster. I punish you with my cock, as it gets harder and larger, nearing my orgasm. You can feel it getting larger and you are thrilled at the feeling it brings out in you. You love being taken by a powerful man, being his lustful toy, being his play thing, for his pleasure. Being taken by force in your most private place, you can't get enough of it. You know you are an anal slut and you love it. I grab you hard and hold you still as one last time I shove my cock into your ass. I hold it deep inside you, as I spill my hot cum into your bowels. I groan a deep groan and to you it sounds like animal is taking you. You think of me as a hairy beast that has you in his power and you couldn't get away, if you wanted to. You whimper your appreciation as my cum fills your ass, and you want to cum yourself, if I will let you. Finally, I reach around and with my hand I pinch your clit, rubbing it roughly, telling you to cum for me. You scream as you can't contain the violent spasms that rush through your bound body. Your own cum gushes from you and runs down your legs to the floor. I continue to fuck you, until the last of my cum is inside you, Your orgasm is so powerful, you can't catch your breath. You finally start to breath easier after a few minutes. I sit back and look at your quivering ass hole, as it wants my cock inside it. It looks like it lost a friend. I see my cum oozing out of your ass, your bowels not large enough to hold it all, and I watch it drip down your ass crack and coat your pussy lips. I tell you I'm quick at recovery, and I think I'll leave you this way, because in just a few more minutes I'll be back for more fun. I've always been very quick with recovery. I think this time I'll also have that 8 inch dong you like so much to fill your pussy. Yes, it will be me in your ass. |
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