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Ok. I have been researching on how to be a good Dom but it takes time and practice to figure out everything. Since I made this account I have had 2 subs so far, the subs did not work out so well. The first one wanted to try out being a sub for the first time and she did well to start but her personality was more of a brat type of sub. She acted out in front of others but when we were alone she was great. It bothered me a great deal. But we discussed a few things and decided it wasn't going to work. I also made mistakes in trying to train her. I was trying to still figure out what kind of Dom I wanted to be and that led me to confuse her. The lack of a contract was a big part of messing things up as well. 2 mistakes I made. Thus far. So the sub I had after that was great. She was already a sub in prior relationships without her knowing what she was. So I guided her into this lifestyle. I made a contract rather quickly to avoid confusion that happened in the first one. Things were fine for a little bit. I helped her plan and start to fix a few things in her life but then I had to leave. This is where I messed this one up. Smiley is used to me being a poly Dom (having the option to have more then one sub at a time) and is fine with it. She accepts and understands my needs and wants. The issue with this is a lot if nilla woman are close minded so I got into a bad habit saying I'm single because things never lasted long with other woman. (this is before i figured out i was a Dom and just had an open relationship) But because I told this new sub I was single in the beginning but things were looking like they were going to work out and last awhile I told her the full story. She didn't accept it well for she wanted me to be a mono Dom (just her Dom) even though I told her I was not that type of person. So I wasn't completely upfront with everything in the beginning and I lied. Another mistake as a Dom I will not do again. So these a few few things I have learned in the last several months of being a Dom. Well here goes. Im in the military so i want to keep this private. I think about a lot of things that would be fun to try but never have tried them. If you would like to know them feel free to ask. I have never been with anyone that has put me out of my comfort zone so I don't really know where my limits truly are or what I truly like. I will update this more later but for now im going to leave this alone. feel free to message me if you would like to know anything. ***WARNING Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites: You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. You do not have my permission to copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information without prior written consent. If you have done or do any of the above, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and personal property and will be subject to all legal remedies. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

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dari00
 
 Age: 37
  New Hampshire