dryfte

My Profile

I am looking for a man, a Dominant (not a dominant or domineering man) who desires a compatible woman, a submissive (not a passive, submissive woman), ideally for a committed, monogamous relationship in whatever form evolves and wherever the path might lead. Time slips by quickly as do opportunities so please be authentic in who you are and real about what you want.

A dimension of me, previously set aside for a while, demands its expression. I seek to engage with the like-minded to explore possibilities with integrity, trust, transparency, and respect as the cornerstones. 

With focused intention, I desire a practical modern-day relationship that integrates the unique intimacy of D/s, romance and daily life. Combining them and peppering with laughter and fun, one hopes to create that special deep, enriching and fulfilling connection with one who is mature and fully relates. The Judy Garland quote in the profile section epitomizes the potential and power of a true D/s dynamic between a man and a woman, a Dom and sub as I see it. Anything else is simply just not enough. 

I respect what I am looking for may not resonate with everyone. I am open to connecting for casual conversation or for sharing experiences or lessons learned, however please respect my primary focus might limit my availability. For those who are married or otherwise attached and seeking a relationship beyond friendship, I wish you well in your search. 

Considerations: Authentic, honest & private. Disclosure, interests, boundaries and limits to be agreed to. Express consent is a requirement. (Most unfortunate this needs to be expressly stated!)

Be safe, stay well and choose wisely.

P.S. Only online intermittently, so an immediate reply is unlikely. Please keep in mind if the only pic you share with me is of your precious jewels, it won't have much of an effect, appearing quite tiny on a 3x4 inch screen. (Respectfully said of course with a mishievous grin and a twinkle in her eye)

Random Musings 2025

07/22/2025: "Oh the games people play". So please, do tell -- are people in their 70s actually looking for relationships or is it a an unfulfilled desire, fantasy, illusion of the mind, or wishful thinking stemming from days gone by. I'm interested in your thoughts. Consider writing me and sharing.

04/04/2025: Well that was quite the telling experience -- key word "was". lol. "Sail on, silver girl" -- the time quickly came for this one to sail away (from him).

03/13/2025: In conversation with someone, which is my focus and priority. If you're looking for anything beyond intermittent casual chat, I kindly ask you to move along and wish you well in your search.

03/03/2025: I wonder if use it or lose it applies to submission.

© dryfte 2025

Random Musings 2024

10/24/2024: Probably time to consider fishing in the pond again. Or totally give it up.

06/24/2024: It's summertime and time for a break. Trust yours is most enjoyable! 

06/08/2024: Perhaps a change is as good as a rest but then again, perhaps it's better!

05/06/2024: Submission, a matter of choice at some point, a means of self-expression that evolves from the natural interaction and dynamic between two people. From my perspective it is not a role play or a dimension that one shifts in and out of at will. It exists and deepens naturally without effort. We only need to be aware of it, see it, and allow it to be freely expressed, shared with one who is worthy. 

03/30/2024: No doubt you've experienced it -- not many worthy fish in this pond. Thankfully, though, there's a catch and release program that works really really well! (grin)

© dryfte 2024