Hi there!

I will update this more as I have time. I am a submissive girl from up here in Northeast Oklahoma. As you can imagine, the task of meeting like-minded individuals has been difficult if not impossible.

So thats what im interested in.. meeting people, exploring things, and learning more about this area of my life that I'm extremely passionate about!

I just wrote this as a response to someone.. and i think i actually did a halfway decent job explaining myself.. im going to add it here..

enjoy;

what am i looking for ?

I hate answering this question because i feel like i can never do it justice.

Ultimately i am looking to be in a 24/7 relationship with ...... certain freedoms, like my career and my family..

I want a man who loves me first and foremost, whom i can experience a power exchange with, who can take care of me emotionally and mentally and physically. whom i feel safe with.. who can teach me and guide me and show me the proper paths to take. I seek someone educated.. someone.. who can talk about current events, debate stuff with me perhaps.. and not let it affect our relationship. I want someone to take care of. Someone to look after, but to know that they are perfectly capable of looking after themselves..

I do not wish to be beaten, mentally or physically abused just so some guy can get off watching me cry...

I do wish to be taught, and when i break the rules or what is expected of me i do expect to be punished.. i enjoy being spanked, bare-handed or with a belt very much as an arousal.. but i hate it as a punishment.. :).. its the double-edged sword so to speak.. soemthing that can bring you pleasure can also cause pain.

I am submissive.. but im only submissive to people worth being submissive to.. if that makes any sense.. im not "blindly submissive".. bending and yeilding to any man with a hard cock that wants to slap me around..

I believe.. wholeheartedly and for a long while now that men are naturally supposed to be the dominant one in the relationship..

Sexually.. i enjoy all sorts of "dark and twisty" things.. that are best explored with people whom i share a close bond with... this girl cant very well enjoy a good beating while wondering what the man "really has in store"...

I want to be ravished and taken.. used for a man's pleasure.. to help him with the frustrations of his day.. i just want that same man to bring me a flower once in awhile, brush the hair back from my face.. and enjoy holding my hand as well..

it may be impossible.. but.. im willing to look :)