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What to say... I have been on and off the scene for quite a long time now, both publicly and privately at various times. If I were to define myself, it would be as a Daddy Dom, with all that entails.

While I can have something of a wicked streak, and certainly enjoy applying discipline, my dominant mode, if I may put it that way, is generally that of a support and guide. Even when tying, whipping or caning, the feel is that of a musician, where my sub is both instrument and audience. My aim is her enjoyment and growth, and my enjoyment derives from that. My ultimate goal is that she should thrive, even while crying.

I recognise that the most precious gift she can give me is that of her own self, and I truly value that. The happier, the stronger, the more successful and complete she is, the more precious the gift. The more I can assist her in completing herself while being her dom, the more I increase the value of what has been given.

This doesn't mean I'm all sweetness and light - I have rules and restrictions and definite views. I'm as definite and stubborn as anything when it's something I feel strongly about - and I will let you know in no uncertain terms when it's something I feel strongly about.

But I also have a tendency to be protective and indulgent. Just like any other daddy, my heart soars when her eyes light up with some gift I've brought, or some outfit or some experience - and if she's hurt or threatened by someone, watch out!

What to say.... well, quite a lot it seems. I'm sure this will change, and be edited and... but upon reading and rereading the essence seems to be there...

I've yet to find my one - but for the most part I'm enjoying the journey, and others along the way.


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