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| Well looks like I have come back to this site. Vanilla people can be so dreadfully boring to talk to as liberal or conservative they are so wrapped up in what others tell them they never think for themselves. I have a wide range of interests that have nothing to do with kink, so if we cant have a real conversation then its just sex and we will both get bored fast. I dont care if you consider yourself a slave, submissive, switch or dom if you cant think beyond sex you are a one trick poney and nothing will ever last. I like someone who can open up and talk to me because then I trust them. I like thinking of this as an exploration of a relationship no matter how extreme because it starts with being able to talk and feel comfortable being open, then trusting each other, and finally pushing everything until its further than you ever thought because you are one with the person. I dont train because I think thats role play and every relationship is different and its about finding what works for the two of you to really experience everything and feel closer. I prefer someone with lesser experience because they tend to not be as brain washed by the stereotypes and more receptive to I like this you like this and we want to try this. I dont play games and will always be very honest even if its harsh, because you are a big girl and lies add up. I talk to everyone with respect, because being dominant is earned not given just like being submissive is earned. I want to find my best friend that we can talk about anything and not worry about what the other person thinks because there is nothing held back in any regards...
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