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Hetero Female Dominant, 54,  Hagerstown, Maryland
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Seeking steady companionship and a high degree of compatibility with a masculine, intelligent, well-rounded, and totally straight gentleman who desires the same degree of romance and passion that I do in a lover, prospective IRT boyfriend, and potential life partner. I do NOT engage in casual play, FWBs, long-distance arrangements and rendezvous, or fruitless on-line interactions....

Due to lack of a better choice, my Switch orientation simply speaks to sensual versatility as an Erotic Domina, but I do not believe one needs multiple partners in order to have a variety of experiences. (I do not see common sorts of eroticism as being kinky, so the issue of BDSM Topping and bottoming do not apply in those cases insofar as I am concerned.) For me, play scenes should have an erotic component or else they hold no interest for me--there is no separating play from having intimate relations in my book....

If pair-bonded, fluid-bonded sex is a team of horses, then play is the cart or carriage, and I do not put the cart before the horse! In order for any of that to develop would require monogamy, whether this would entail a fairly equal partnership or a predominantly female-led one....

Ideally, you should be in close proximity to me. I would also prefer an age gap which is not considerably more than -10+5 years (44-59 years old). Military experience and catlovers are a plus, if not a must!...

Besides being a sapio-romantic sapiosexual, my main fetish is tantalolagnia, or T and D where D stands for Delay, not Denial, including Edging, within the context of pursuing a serious relationship....

Since many of the interests listed can be interpreted ambiguously, some have been modified or averaged depending on who is on the giving end and who is on the receiving end, and a couple have been deliberately left out to remain below the radar. Relevant inquiries only, please.












 Dominant Female



 5' 5"

 125 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

Male slave/sub

Switch Male


 Fine Dining



 You worshiping my body

 Mental Bondage

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Role Playing

 Historical Shows



 Intellectual Discourse





 Horseback Riding

 You begging

 Blindfolding you

 You worshiping my breasts

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Collaring you


 Rear End Play

 Hair Pulling

 Complete control over your orgasms

 Sensation Play

 Tickling you while you are bound

 Wax Play




 Alternative Music

 Electronica / EDM


 Rock Music






 Genital Punishment


 Obedience Training



 Rubber Fetish



 Heavy Metal Music




 Domestic Service

 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks



 Plastic Wrap Bondage








 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play

 Speech Restrictions



 Hard Limits:

 Erotic touch

 Modern Primitivism


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Journal Entries:
9/26/2015 7:11:20 PM
== Results from

82% Dominant
81% Master/Mistress
80% Primal (Hunter)
70% Vanilla
53% Daddy/Mommy
52% Owner
51% Primal (Prey)
46% Bondage giver
45% Experimentalist
41% Switch
33% Brat tamer
29% Degradation giver
24% Brat
18% All-Rounder
17% Sadist
15% Exhibitionist
13% Voyeur
10% Submissive
9% girl/boy
3% Non-monogamist
1% Bondage receiver
1% Degradation receiver
1% Pet
1% Ageplayer
0% Masochist
0% Slave
See my results online at 

(Newly revamped Test added 3 new categories for Owner/Pet & Ageplayer, and it removed Pervert.)

3/5/2015 12:23:36 PM
It was a surprise to see some of the results of a BDSM test I just took, and I'm not sure how accurate they are, but here goes FWIW:

== Results from

88% Daddy/Mommy
71% Dominant
67% Primal (Predator)
63% Vanilla
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Bondage Giver
51% Switch
36% Master/Mistress
34% Experimentalist
34% Girl/Boy
33% Brat Tamer
25% Degradation Giver
25% Masochist
12% All-Rounder
9% Voyeur
8% Bondage Receiver
5% Brat
4% Non-monogamist
4% Submissive
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Exhibitionist
0% Pervert
0% Sadist
0% Slave
See my results online at

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