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Seeking steady companionship and a high degree of compatibility with a masculine, intelligent, well-rounded, and totally straight gentleman who desires the same degree of romance and passion that I do in a lover, prospective IRT boyfriend, and potential life partner. I do NOT engage in casual play, FWBs, long-distance arrangements and rendezvous, or fruitless on-line interactions....
Due to lack of a better choice, my Switch orientation simply speaks to sensual versatility as an Erotic Domina, but I do not believe one needs multiple partners in order to have a variety of experiences. (I do not see common sorts of eroticism as being kinky, so the issue of BDSM Topping and bottoming do not apply in those cases insofar as I am concerned.) For me, play scenes should have an erotic component or else they hold no interest for me--there is no separating play from having intimate relations in my book....
If pair-bonded, fluid-bonded sex is a team of horses, then play is the cart or carriage, and I do not put the cart before the horse! In order for any of that to develop would require monogamy, whether this would entail a fairly equal partnership or a predominantly female-led one....
Ideally, you should be in close proximity to me. I would also prefer an age gap which is not considerably more than -10+5 years (44-59 years old). Military experience and catlovers are a plus, if not a must!...
Besides being a sapio-romantic sapiosexual, my main fetish is tantalolagnia, or T and D where D stands for Delay, not Denial, including Edging, within the context of pursuing a serious relationship....
Since many of the interests listed can be interpreted ambiguously, some have been modified or averaged depending on who is on the giving end and who is on the receiving end, and a couple have been deliberately left out to remain below the radar. Relevant inquiries only, please.
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== Results from bdsmtest.org/
== 82% Dominant 81% Master/Mistress 80% Primal (Hunter) 70% Vanilla 53% Daddy/Mommy 52% Owner 51% Primal (Prey) 46% Bondage giver 45% Experimentalist 41% Switch 33% Brat tamer 29% Degradation giver 24% Brat 18% All-Rounder 17% Sadist 15% Exhibitionist 13% Voyeur 10% Submissive 9% girl/boy 3% Non-monogamist 1% Bondage receiver 1% Degradation receiver 1% Pet 1% Ageplayer 0% Masochist 0% Slave See my results online at bdsmtest.org/result.?id=705899
(Newly revamped Test added 3 new categories for Owner/Pet & Ageplayer, and it removed Pervert.) |
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It was a surprise to see some of the results of a BDSM test I just took, and I'm not sure how accurate they are, but here goes FWIW:
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/
== 88% Daddy/Mommy 71% Dominant 67% Primal (Predator) 63% Vanilla 56% Primal (Prey) 54% Bondage Giver 51% Switch 36% Master/Mistress 34% Experimentalist 34% Girl/Boy 33% Brat Tamer 25% Degradation Giver 25% Masochist 12% All-Rounder 9% Voyeur 8% Bondage Receiver 5% Brat 4% Non-monogamist 4% Submissive 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Exhibitionist 0% Pervert 0% Sadist 0% Slave See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=164168
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