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Ok this is my new profile. I made a new one and will be deleting the old one on the suggestion of a helpful soul here on CM. She has helped me so I may attract the right kind of person(please see my journal). I won't just automatically submit to a women because she calls herself a dominant. I am looking for someone truly dominant that could make almost anyone submit. I feel it is such a greater turn on to be forced or coerced to submit and I would hope it would be a greater turn on for the dominant. It's like with greater challenge comes greater reward. Oh I have blue eyes just like my picture. ;-)

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5/14/2012 7:51:25 AM

Man, this site drives me mad sometimes.  I don't even know why I come back here.  


4/11/2012 10:58:07 AM

Ok so I haven't put anything in my journal in quite sometime.  I am sure everyone has seen this video but I thought it better be a good update.  What a commercial.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAmE7n05vo8


10/6/2011 12:13:54 PM
My father passed away last Friday sept 30th. I have been doing quite a bit of thinking since then. I might be spending more time on here. I just don't want to get discouraged lke before with this site. I know tall order.

6/5/2011 1:25:11 AM

Lately I have been very busy with my Dad being very very ill.  So I have been spending less time on here than before.


6/2/2011 8:36:42 AM

I was once told by someone on here that I was like a little excited puppy jumping around trying see and explore everything.  I really thought they were right but I think now I have lost some of that sparkle.  I think partly  because this site is so frustrating but mostly I lost that sparkle when they decided not to talk to me anymore.  It really took the wind out of my sails.  


5/31/2011 10:25:11 PM

I watched a very interesting documentary this evening on Hugh Hefner and Playboy Magazine.  I knew much of the story but so much of it happened before my time.  Very very interesting and enlightening.  It was called Hugh Hefner/Playboy/Activist.  Again I am just sharing as usual.  


5/13/2011 7:13:56 PM

Well, I am a sad person today.  It seems as though someone I thought I had a connection with decided that they no longer wanted any contact with me.  I honestly thought they meant well by me but apparently I was wrong.  I hold no grudge for them and I wish them well.  I guess they felt time was up and things must end.  I will truly miss talking with them and  I am sad and sorry to see them go.  In the short time we talked I learned  many things and will try to better myself from that.  I guess that is what life is about, one big quest of learning and exploration.  I thank you.


5/7/2011 9:19:52 AM

I think it's strange.  When I send an e-mail to someone new on here, I would expect them to take a look at my profile.  When I receive an e-mail from someone new, usually the first thing I do is look at their profile then look at the e-mail.  It's mostly so I can get an idea of where they are coming from.  Anyway that's just my take on things.


5/4/2011 6:21:18 PM

Well, I gained some insight on myself today.  It might not have been something I wanted to hear but it was needed.  I may be a better person for it.  I appreciate when people are just honest with me.  So many people sugar coat things which really doesn't do anyone any good.  The person that told me this is unofficially helping me.  I trust and appreciate there advice because they are honest and really stand nothing to gain for lying to me.  It's kind of a selfless one way thing.  I wish some how I could help them or return the favor.  Again just expressing my feelings, thanks for reading, all three of you, ha ha ha.


4/26/2011 3:35:53 PM

This is the strangest place ever.  At times I feel like the smartest person in the room.  At other times I feel like the most unintelligent.  Oh I get it, maybe I am just average.  I guess it's just a cross section of society unlike anywhere else.  Although in everyday life I never feel stupid(perhaps because I am in my field).  In a few conversations or at least reading a few journals I feel just stupid for lack of another word(one such journal really struck me today).  Just sharing thoughts.  


4/24/2011 1:12:46 PM
Well I haven't met anyone yet. Don't get me wrong I have met some nice people on here that I wouldn't mind exploring with but nothing has seemed to work out yet. I must keep trying.

4/20/2011 7:55:55 PM

This place can be a challenge.  Just when you think things might be looking up and you make a connection with someone, it all just seems to end.  Just venting today.


4/19/2011 3:32:25 PM

Saw Scream 4 today.  All I could think is that the movie must have been written by a male sub.  Lot's of snide comments by very attractive women and they also kick some serious ass.  


4/17/2011 5:44:55 PM

About the previous journal entry.  I do wish I could meet the person that gave me advice but of course in a chance sort of way as she described.  I have only met one Dominant lady by chance.  It was before I knew of such things.  She berated me and I just took it.  In my mind, I told myself I was taking the verbal abuse because I was a nice person and I shouldn't fire back at a girl.  Now, thinking back on the situation I may have been silent and taking it for all different reasons.  I didn't like the abuse but I took it anyway and strangely it turned me on.  I wish I could go back to that moment.  Just sharing some thoughts.   

 

 

 

Perhaps that is my dream.  To meet a girl by chance that convinces or forces me to submit to her by her sheer dominance. 

 


4/17/2011 5:42:55 PM

Well today I talked with someone that gave me some nice insight on my profile.  They told me I was probably attracting the wrong people with my username.  I think the best way to explain this is to put the msg. they sent me in my journal.  I do agree with them.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
this is my opinion, if im on collarme and Im talking to someone whos listed as submissive with the screen name pleaseuseme. I dont think of it as much of a victory getting him to submit. Infact its a slap in the face if hes clearly that submissive and trys to fire back when hes prob submitting to 50 other girls as I speak to him! Now if its a guy I meet out at a bar or a club or work or a boss or SOMETHING, and hes not submissive now thats a FUN conquest. To prove your dominance and the power of manipulation, but someone named pleaseuseme on cm is not a conquest. In my opinion you set yourself up for what your getting. a common screen name and listed as switch would have been good if you wanted to be forced or manipulated or convinced to submit.
 

To any one out there in cyber land, I am not submitting to 50 other girls.  Oh and it turns out you can't change your username.  I am looking into whether I should change to a switch.  I am still unsure about that because I think submissives can still have a backbone and not just blindly follow or submit to someone.  I think the getting to know someone and eventually submitting seems way more intriguing.  Just my opinion.

 


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TexasBarbie
 
 Age: 32
 San francisco, California