dreamingdemon

"I'm pretty much up for anything." This is the game killer right there. Dom or sub if a pretty girl says to you: What fantasy would you like fulfilled then you better have a better answer than: I'm not sure but I'm pretty much up for anything. That is the answer you give when you are asked if you prefer pizza or Chinese. Not an answer that leads to sexual joy and satisfaction.

Ok, my lovelies listen up because I'm going to teach you about how to impress a Domme.

First if you are a submissive or slave then awesome. Seriously, be proud of yourself. Now then realize that you are common. There are lots of subs out there just hanging from the trees. I know you have heard all the stuff about the gift of submission... and well... it's kind of a crock. Dominants are in short supply in any gender. So you're going to have to sell a potential Dominant on the idea that messing around with you is worth his or her time.

This being said, sex is usually not enough motivation for making the sale. If many other Dommes I know are like me they usually do not want for sex partners. Get this clear: for a pretty and dominant woman, whether gg or trans, sex is an abundant commodity. Also witty conversation is likewise not in short supply. A reasonably intelligent and socially well adjusted person has plenty of friends for that.

So then if you want to impress me buy me flowers, a spa treatment, an Amazon Gift Card, toys, clothing, makeup, fetish gear. Offer to come clean my home, change my oil. Any number of sweet practical things will do. They don't have to be expensive just thoughtful and consistent. If this offends your sensibilities then go pout somewhere and shut up. 

So to reiterate: Sell yourself to the One you want to serve! Sex and witty conversation are prerequisites, not selling points. Submissives are fairly common. So do concrete things to gain the attention of the Dominant you desire!