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drdangerous

Male Dominant, 53, Santa Rosa, California
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drdangerous - Male Switch, New Haven, CT Connecticut | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About drdangerous

Intelligent, masculine, successful man looking for a partner. ?I'm open minded, easy to get along with and looking for someone that can enjoy time with me, but doesn't need to see me everyday. ?I'm an event host for casual nights with local kinky people and active in the Boston and NY scenes as well. ?Rope was my gateway and I love showing people what I know, but I'm always learning more.
People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.?- President Abraham Lincoln. I live by these words.
What do I want, what am I looking for? Experience! Something noteworthy to remember. In the end that's all we have, isn't it? The memories we can share with our loved ones. Make some fantastic memories with me.

that wicked lil angel

button up shirt
high socks, high skirt
inspiring threads for a dirty mind

puckering lips
curve of her hips
begging to be tossed over my thighs

a subtle squirm
ass nicely firm
i begin to slap 'til she sighs

whimpering sigh?
i'll make her cry!
belting 'til she loses her mind

perspiring crown
calming her down
hotly, her excitement darkens my thighs

a gentle kiss
much tender bliss
breathily whispering her satisfied sighs

Every Guy Needs a Vibrator
Based on a couple of isolated experiences I've had (one of which I may actually write about), I've discovered that vibration can be an excellent sex toy for humans of all genders. This article involves description of masturbatory techniques, so if you don't want to read that about me, don't continue :)

When I went to the local dirty store (VIP or Orange - http://maps.google.com/maps/place?um=1&ie=UTF-8&q=vip+orange+ct&fb=1&gl=us&hq=vip+orange+ct&cid=11516238873813776340), I poured over all the available vibrators. I wanted something versatile that wouldn't necessarily guide me toward any one conclusion on what to do with it. So I passed over all of the dildo/phallus shaped ones. I took a brief look at plugs, but then again, that would lead me to conclude I needed to go for anal insertion. What I settled on after talking to the woman that worked there walking the aisles was a set of bullet vibes (http://www.calexotics.com/p-22601-sterling-collection-combo-5.aspx).

I did a little research on vibrators for men because my experience with them was unlike any other I'd had in the past (simply using them on females). There were some helpful articles about how to experiment with them and I got to work.

I tried all kinds of things. External stimulation, internal stimulation, stimulation in weird areas (I have strange ticklish spots on my hips, thighs, actually I have a bunch). So far I've found I like to take both bullets and put the big bullet on the underside below the head - I'm circumcised and essentially the most sensitive spot on the underside is the fringe of tissue where the foreskin was removed (sorry, not such a sexy description). I put the little bullet on the topside so when on the upstroke, it's edge hits the edge of my crown, but doesn't remain there. I'm able to do this because I have massive hands ;)

The issue I have to contend with is skin chafing. Keeping the vibes in the right place is difficult with lube, they slip out of my grip. So my strokes have to be small, which works great, except when I'm really excited and want to tear loose - at times I'll get a little skin chafe. Grr. So, I've found that 1 bullet vibe is also nice on the underside and I can manage this with lube and not losing it's place.

For internal stimulation it's interesting and adds an element of "surprise"! Hits a nice spot. It's not the same as my glass plug which just applies a nice pressure, but it doesn't move around because it's all tight in there.

Another external area that I like stimulation, on only the lowest settings of vibration, is the perineum. That place is amazingly sensitive and if I take my time, capable of inducing giant cumshots that hit my headboard (if I'm not careful). lol

So if you're a guy and were curious about vibration but didn't want to buy a cock, buy some bullet vibes instead :)

Oh, I also tried using condoms to hold them in place as I've seen in videos and had done to me. I want to work to a non-traditionally stimulated orgasm i.e. where the penis is not experiencing some sort of penis-in-hole simulation (i.e. jacking off)

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