DRAGONSLIFE

i found this years ago on a profile and its so true

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Dominance isnt about sex.
A Ds relationship isnt about bondage and toys.
TPE isnt about keeping a sex slave.

Dominance is being there for her.
Dominance is working through her meltdowns.
Dominance is accepting her, especially when she wont accept herself.
Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.
Dominance is tucking her in at night.
Dominance is telling her no.
Dominance is quieting her demons.
Dominance is being her bastion of strength.
Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.
Dominance is encouraging her.
Dominance is comforting her in the middle of the night when shes had a nightmare.
Dominance is guiding her.
Dominance is building her.
Dominance is love.

On the flip side, submission is so much more than getting spanked and having orgasms.

Submission is about being there for him.
Submission is about being that consistent person for him.
Submission is building him up and letting him know hes loved and valued.
Submission is about listening when you want to speak.
Submission is about running to the drug store when he is under the weather.
Submission is helping him get ready for work when he is running late.
Submission is letting him lead, even when its hardest.
Submission is being his cheerleader.
Submission is honest, open communication because thats what he deserves.
Submission is having his back.
Submission is being the hand that reaches for his in the middle of the night.
Submission is so much more than sex and submitting can come in the smallest, simplest ways.

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