DragonLady91

About DragonLady91

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I have been around for a bit of time now, but a lot has changed and I decided to re-create my profile to reflect this and uncomplicate things a little.

I only recently started actually exploring my desires, to be honest, but in that short time I have found more than I ever thought possible and I'm amazed and enjoying the journey I am taking with my submissive boyfriend.

And yes, that means I'm in a relationship and therefore unavailable. However I am always interested in friends, and people to talk to about this dynamic and wiitwd. Having suppressed a lot of this for years, actually being able to talk about it is very liberating and I enjoy it immensely, so if you want to talk and just make friends feel free to send me a message. I'll try to get back to everyone, but from my experience I may easily get overwhelmed, in which case I apologise if I don't reply. Generally, I will reply to anyone who leaves a half-decent message with something interesting to follow up on. Anyone who views my profile gets a bonus too ;) I'm not a fan of one-liners or stupid questions like am I real, and will probably only reply to those if I'm bored!

Anyway, a bit about me...

I have had these desires for years, but it took me a while to realise they were sexual and even longer to do anything about it. I was a very innocent girl, to be honest, when I started enjoying stories that had a few D/s or S/M oriented scenes. I still am in many vanilla ways, but I believe I'm slowly being corrupted ;)

I got a lot of messages asking what I like, or what aspects of BDSM I'm interested in. Basically, give me some spark of inspiration and I could fantasise about something I'd never really considered in great depth. None of this is about specific activities or fetishes for me. I mean, yes, I like some things more than others, but for me it's all mainly about the control and power and having someone give me that power over them, give themselves to me. It's all about the submission, for me, what another person gives of themselves to me, what they let me do to them, and how I can make them react. It's all about how they react to what I do. I'm open to exploring pretty much anything at this point, and I'm enjoying doing so very much.

The way I view D/s is that submission is a gift, the most precious gift you can ever give to anyone, to give them all of ourself that way, to have and show that much trust and respect for someone...I am truly amazed that someone felt able to give that to me so quickly, but it really is the most amazing feeling. One thing I have never understood is the idea of making a submissive feel worthless. I respect anyone who could give so much of themselves, and in all honesty I would never want someone's submission if I didn't respect them...it just wouldn't mean nearly as much. I don't believe in female supremacy, dominants and submissives are all equal, otherwise the submission wouldn't be nearly as precious. I view dominance and control as an extension of the love I feel for someone...my desire to control comes from caring so deeply about them. I love D/s for the connection and energy it offers, for the fact it lets both partners completely open to each other. I want and expect a lot, I need a lot of control, but I accept all that being the dominant partner means. In the end, I want to dominate, to hurt and control and use, but I also want to love and care for and look after, and I see all of that as dominance.

For me, it's also really not just about scenes and playing, but we're currently exploring a more 24/7 dynamic at the moment, which I never really thought I'd need that much, but it turns out that's what I was looking for. It's surprising, considering how little I knew about what I wanted, that I managed to find it all, really xD

In other interests, I'm currently at University, studying Economics. In terms of what I like doing, I'm more a fan of staying in than going out. Curling up and watching something or just having friends round for a laugh or going out for a meal seems a lot more enjoyable and interesting than going out dancing all night. I enjoy walking in the countryside, my family is all rather obsessed with horse riding and I probably spend too many hours on the computer surfing random things and playing games xD

Anyway, this is probably far too overlong. If anyone does read it all, well I appreciate it, and if you write to me I will most probably notice it ;) And I hope you do, because if it interested you enough that you got this far, then that's the sort of person I want to hear from really :)

I wish everyone luck with finding what they're looking for, and hope that I can make some friends on here within this lifestyle to talk to about wiitwd.