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Hetero Female Submissive, 63,  Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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Yes, I know the odds of finding someone real here, but what’s a girl to do? I’m seeking a LT live- in relationship with a Dom/Master who completes us. After an emotional journey and a lot of soul searching I’ve accepted my submissiveness (although that might be a surprise to many who know me.) I need to transfer control. My search is driven by the thought of being with a man with whom I have such a deep bond that I am able to trust Him with the entirety of my heart, mind and body. I love to please; he will know when he needs to hold me and when he needs to take me in hand. I am a real woman, affectionate, love to touch/hug and need to receive affection in return. My favorite spot is cuddled up with Him. Your physical endowments, sexual prowess and assets will not impress me. Likewise, I am not impressed by those who are stern and dour; my belief is that “life is too serious to take seriously.” You will earn my submission through respect, not from fear or by demanding it. Use your words to seduce my mind with witty and intelligent conversation. If we can have fun, laugh, find meaning and enjoyment, you can win my heart. I would respectfully request you observe the following:
  1. If you are married or in a committed relationship with someone else, I am not interested.
  2. Please do not contact me if you are only interested in an online relationship or cybersex.
  3. While geography can be a challenge, it doesn’t need to be a deal breaker. If we make a connection, please plan to meet in 3-4 weeks.
  4. Communication on a regular basis is a must. I need the assurance that you are serious about me.
I'm intelligent, loyal and honest; a college graduate and retired professional who enjoys a variety of vanilla activities. Sane, financially stable, non-smoker, disease free (and expect the same;) I subscribe to RACK; try to stay physically active. There are no children or elderly relatives to impede a potential relationship. "WARNING: ALL individuals, Universities, and/or all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - YOU DO NOT HAVE PERMISSION from me to use any of my profile or personal pictures in any form or forum past, current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action."











 Submissive Female

 Oklahoma City 


 5' 6"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male


 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining (Expert)



 Horseback Riding (Expert)


 Scuba Diving (Expert)


 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Being Massaged

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Sensory Deprivation



 Art Collecting

 Conservative Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism

 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM



 Anal Play


 Fire Play

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Alternative Medicine



 Intellectual Discourse

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music

 Opera Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music



 Shopping (Expert)

 Curious About:


 Local BDSM Community


 Obedience Training

 Role Playing

 Wax Play

 Role Playing Games


 Victorian Lifestyle


 Bar Hopping

 Gambling (Beginner)



 Housework Service


 TV Sports

 Liberal Politics

 Gorean Lifestyle





 Hard Limits:

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
4/12/2015 7:22:42 PM
I begin to despair of finding someone who is REAL and is honest about who and what they are.  I am a woman and have feelings; I do not want to play with married men.  Period.  I am not here for those who want to play online games; there are those who do, please play with them.  It is difficult enough finding those who are serious about their searches; please don't complicate mine. 

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