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Male Dominant, 24, Seattle, Washington
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About downwards
I've told myself that I was going to do something like this for a number of years. And, here it is, the end of another year, and I haven't done a thing. I'm a middle aged, submissive male. Or, maybe I should say a middle aged male who submits! Yeah, I have conflicts! I think I've accepted myself, for who I am, but I am not sure I've come to understand much about it. For many years I've been submissive to a Domme/switch couple. Not with any regularity. They will contact me whenever they wish, and take control of me for a night, a weekend or whatever. It can be three or four weeks between contact, or five or six months. I know it's an odd kind of dynamic. We're not quite friends, though we exchange Christmas cards, they know my birthday, etc. They did not teach or train me, they simply dominated me and I had no choice but to go with the flow. Looking back at it all, it was a kind of ultimate training method. Like being thrown into the deep end of the pool so you can learn to swim. While I was never in risk of drowning, I knew I could lose the interaction if I had ever failed to accept, cope and endure. It's was very exciting, but always mixed with fear. Just like the pleasure is mixed with pain and abuse. I'm looking for the person, or couple, that I can submit to but with some basic kind of dominant-submissive relationship. I don't need to be some clingy kind of friend. But, what has been missing, for me, is a basic kind of trust so that I can be who I really am. I don't have any other personal issues or baggage and I'm not riddled with fears or limits. I don't want it to seem as if I am just looking for a "nice" person. I'm looking for a good, trustworthy, nice person who can also be not so nice. I find the more cognitive aspects of this liefestyle of great interest. I would like to find somebody who feels the same, or at least understands what this means. I'm open and able to share my feelings, realizing that this is an important part of making a connection. If I haven't said this well, I just hope you will get in touch with me, get to know me. I don't expect that anything will happen overnight. It seems to me that, at the heart of this, there must be trust. So, you'll find that I'm glad to tell you about myself. Oh yeah - I have been single for quite some time, I do work and do have a family and friends. I'm healthy. You tell me what more you want to know about me! I don't want to relocate, but can get around New England though I really do want more regularity than what long-distance implies. I should also mention that the "bald" look was a sort of experiment, last Spring. I'm not sure how much longer I will keep the look, but I did want to get a picture posted. |
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