Dougsir

My interest are vague and my expectations evolve. I have some requirements which are simple and few and not negotiable. They are; Honesty, (because of what contempt you convey to a guy when you're dishonest), Being in the present moment, (if you bring me anything, let it be yourself now), Breathing (remember to breathe), and Obedience, (because of how a guy tells me he wants me with his obedience and I don't want to be where I'm not wanted). I would expect you to do as you're told and take what you're given. I'm not looking for fair or equal or that you have any rights. You will get as much or little as amuses me at the moment to give you. I dislike to discipline. I warn first. I prefer to use exclusion to discipline. That does not mean that I won't or have not used pain to that purpose. I believe that pain should be begged for. I also feel strongly against taking guys any place that they don't want to go. This is n't pushing limits, that's different. And all of these things are based upon trust. We should meet and see what we think. Without meeting we don't know what chemistry exists. Let me know what your thoughts are.