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About DougDammitt
And This Really Needs To Be Said, "Scammers stay away!" As well as those who soley believe that this lifestyle is only for those who have dungeons in their basements, live in leather, whips and chains galore.... IF that is you thoughts on this, then you are as the Post says, If you don't get it, you don't get it.
Looking for a lady in public and whatever I want her to be in private... That would be my tagline if I had one.
Here is my story. Back in my younger days when I was stationed in Japan (mid 80s) I had the good fortune to be showed many things by a submissive Japanese lady in her mid-30s. At the time, I had never heard of the term “submissive” let alone “slave.” She opened many doors that thru different times of my life I had to shut. She saw the real me. Though I opened doors and pulled out chairs for women in public (which I still do), I had a dominant personality she helped nature. Further, she helped me realize that a dominant person isn’t just the ones found wearing rubber, leather, or PVC who stand 6’4” with a over the top sized organ and look like they just stepped out of a GQ magazine. She and her girlfriend (a first but not the last for me) let me see the person I really am. They desired, better yet, needed to be led and 'told' what to do. Rules, my rules, were to be obeyed; their need to wear a collar and leash, and at times to be by my side on their knees serving me. It was quite educational - I would not have missed it for the world.
I am a business professional who is emotionally and financially stable; no Trump -but I do okay. I prefer a woman to be intelligent and educated that has no dominant side at all, a giver not a taker, well-mannered, respectful, honest, good hygiene, and is emotionally and financially stable- between 35 and 50 years of age, good kisser, somewhat outdoors, has a humorous side, and has good figure (this doesn't mean she has to look like a female sports model). I prefer petite, like 5'2" and under -- so much more fun that way for me but there are always exception to every rule. I cannot stand a woman who lacks the social graces that seem to surround me these days (routinely farts in front of people/family and thinks is funny, keeps the bathroom door open when using it - -sorry private, and thinks nagging is a way to communicate). To me, the ideal woman needs to be able to share what is on/in her mind freely. From A to Z. From how she feels about world events to those deep dark secrets that turn her on but she may be scared for someone to know.
If you think it is fun to test your man every day by being bitchy and so on; again, please move on. PMS is not an excuse - its a lifestyle to many --- and a one that I soon just not be a part of. Drama is for the movies - - -so keep it there.
For me, a woman should truly love being a lady with manners, slut, a slave, and an extension of me. She shows leg and thigh, (heels-a lost art), wear clothes I have selected (wwwsecretsinlace.com is nice for starters). And when we go out ..... hiking, its nice hiking clothes, the gym its gym clothes, after that - the woman is representing me... A woman who buys her underwear at JC Penneys or Sears most likely will not like me. I want quality in the woman and the clothes she wears. She will have medium to long hair on the top of her head (perfect for pulling) and none south of the border. The no hair south of the border or slight landing strip is mandatory. To me, her body is mine. every nook and cranny is mine to explore, test, to penetrate, to own. Front door, back door, attic window to the basement windows; they are all mine. Her mouth should often be full with me - and done so in a manner some call oral worship; but there are times when I just want her on the table to be my dinner to feast upon so that she feels how much I enjoy my meal; a control thing some would say. Further, if she is instructed to suck me or bring herself to orgasm in the middle of Main Street USA during rush hour she would... (not saying I would - - being arrested is not fun I am told). She will know the sting of my hand on her backside as well of that of leather. I prefer rope to handcuffs - rope to me is more personal than metal.
To me, a woman for me does this for she feels that this is how it should be. Everything! From having her Dom choose the clothes she wears and to assigning her duties at home as I see fit – at any time or place. Some call this 50s lifestyle others say it is the way it should be. He is the King of the castle and she is his queen and family is important. Again, If she can not respect her man, what does he have but an empty shell and the reverse is true - for all that happens between the woman and me, all those things that many call dirty, bad, slutty, etc. let them be damned, for she could walk around the house all day wearing me as she would wear my favorite shade of lipstick for her, my love and respect would still be there. If you don't like to wear dresses, stockings, and heels for most of the days in the work week or when attending functions, then please move on for I don’t think the magic will happen. We can still be great friends but I will not go thru life wanting something that I will never have. It is not in my nature. I have also have these things promised to me but in the end the person was always trying to get there.. Sorry, but there is a limit to my patience.
Lastly, a she will always want to 'wear' my love anywhere and never find it hard to 'swallow' in a manner of speaking (extreme oral fetish is appreciated lol). I truly know what I do not want in a relationship and will not settle for anything but the best life has to offer. It is all or nothing - I am king and she will serve.... One could not imagine the hours a day I could/would spend thinking of doing things to her.... hmmmm. I am a tad bit of a sadist and love to pull hair, twist a nipple hard, and so on. And for all those who say that if there was a woman like this out there that I would be bored or have no respect for her, I say bullshit... I know what makes me happy. Most important, I know what doesn't make me happy....
DougDammitt
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To many crazies showing up these days. Its just crazy.. Where are the submissive woman who love the 50s view of life who have a tad bit of a masochist in them. :-) |
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Danger Will Robinson.?
Folks - warning to all.? Another scammer is on CM.? Their handle is SlaveWade or something to that affect.? Supposedly under the watchful instruction of the Slave Center Org (slavecenter@weirdness.com).? What even makes me madder, they really suck at the Con...... Ask for money too soon.? Didnt even know how to set the hook.. Worse of all, their 'bait' aka SlaveWade was/is supposedly from the US but uses terms and measurements from Eastern Europe.? too fucking funny.
Giveaways -? the person is X feet Y inches tall and only 46 lbs and from BFE, USA.? Well, even the photo doesnt normally match here.? And,,, the person is thinking in kilograms and not pounds...?
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When a sub/slave state in their profile that they are willing to do anything, does that mean they'll wash windows, clean, cook, and walk the dog too?? :-)~~
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I am more in line with the 50s lifestyle with a little flair.? I do not like a mindless woman (though at times it is nice) but never do I want a disrespectful one.? Just a thought for the day.
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I saw? something the other day that made me laugh.? A profile of a 18 year old that stated? they had been a slave for 18 years.? Excuse me-but this is most unlikely.? Is it just me a is CH now filled 25? year olds or less who are post that they are bisexual but now only want lesbian only relationships?
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Nothing new to report. Slow day at work. So, how is everyone else doing these days? Is it me or in reading many profiles that it seems the are many 18-28 year old females stating that they have been slaves or dommes for 10 plus years.. Reminds me when I used to work in IT and companies would only hire H1b visa workers who worked cheaper and claimed to have X+1-5 number of years experience in something that had only been out for X many years. Talk about messed up.
Also, I guess I must be one who prefers the older style lifestyle (some called 50s) in which a woman enjoyed being a woman for her man/master and the care/feeding with command and control that comes with the lifestyle.. Though I will say I prefer 'weapons' or 'toys' of opportunity for play. 3/4 nylon rope doesn't leave rope burns (if used correctly) vice all this store bought over-priced gear... IMHO, a true sub/slave or master doesn?t need to be in play gear for the sub to kneel before their dom/domme. To me, nothing is sexier than a woman kneeling while wearing heels and business suit. Though I have to admit dry cleaning can get expense but it is worth it. To me, that is part of the care and feeding..
Well, time to get off the soap box. Say hello if you can? Send photo of you saying hello is better. (And please make it a photo of you, not something with a little internet research find its not you).  |
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I haven't written anything for a while.. Just been sitting back and watching as things plays out here in CM. I still find it funny at some of the postings. Never thought I see so many folks trying to get one's money and such. Oh well - may be time for online profile-cide... |
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I came across another profile in which the so-called slave had serveral demands on who/what owner should be. The list was long... WTF.... Is this web site and the life style becoming of a fad rather than the real thing? |
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My recent movie reviews (5 Stars)
Live Free or Die Hard ***;
Transformers ***;
FF2: Rise of the Silver Surfer **;
1408 ** 1/2;
POTC3: At World's End *;
300 ****; &
Spiderman 3 ** 1/2
Any questions? |
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One has to ask, how come so many straight women buy clothes created by gay male designers but then wonder why they do not fit just right. Ever think that the clothes were designed for young gay men and not a woman?s body. Shouldn?t women wear clothing that appeals to their straight men than to a gay men? Further, many women chase hairstyles that make women look like men - then wonder why men do not approach them?
Just an observation
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I am wondering, how many folks calling themselves slaves/submissives are real? I see some of these photos and they appear scripted. Has any one else noticed this? |
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Paris led screaming and crying back to jail.. About time. |
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Someone sent me a short clip of what they thought was a great blowjob. At the end of the clip the guy basically jerked off into the woman's mouth. How is that blowjob; and a great one at that? |
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Just saw Pirates III. It was about an hour too long. My rating is a five out of ten. |
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Back from a short vacation. Finally finished my masters program.. I actually can start reading real books instead of textbooks.
Wonder if anyone actually reads what I have written. But who really gives a hoot. Say hello if you can.. |
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Somehow I feel CM has attracted a lot of scammers recently. Never had so many promises to be the best sub/slave eever for only $$. |
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Nothing new to report. Funny, I have to wonder to myself if any of those folks putting up their profiles are really in the lifestyle or not... Just an observation. |
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Another day of work. Not much going on here. Funny thing though; a person wanted to know if I could be an online master for them. After a few short communications, I asked them what were their expectations.. No reply. Not to be mean, but the lifestyle warrants asking those questions and deserves those answers as well. If one cannot answer - then how does one know what do --- better yet, what they dont want in this lifestyle.. If you dont know what you do want in life, you better damn well know what you dont want. Nuff said for today on that subject.  |
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Communication is a lost at these days. One is not always looking for the perfect speller or immaculate grammer. However, it is nice when a sub or slave can put their thoughts on paper (or should I say I-paper). |
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The Giants screwed the pooch again.. Damn them.... Is it the team is not playing together or bad coaching? I say, bad coaching.. Damn pass prevent defense. It sucks more than a bar girl.. aaaahhh |
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What ever happened to swallowing?? Lost art or what..?? :-)
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Good evening folks.? I just noticed something, and also gave my kudos to the individual.? A lot of photos here, I am not picking on any one individual, appear hurried or rushed.? Don't get me wrong, I do love the nudes and action pictures.? Seeing the whole package or her displaying her oral talents are well recieved.? But, if you are going to just take a picture for the purpose of folks putting a face to a name, clean up, do your hair, put on makeup (within reason). It is like a date, you would not want me to meet you at the door looking shabbily or unkept, what makes one think I/we appreciate the same.? I am not talking about a glamour shot.? Just present yourself with respect to the recipient - Me...
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Someone recently asked me what I thought about subs/slaves who do not swallow.? Odd question, but? I answered it as follows.. If a woman (sub/slave) is not willing to swallow, wear me even in public, or? even lick my cum off the floor, then she is not one for me. It pleases me when she does this..
That is my 15 second blurb.? Doug
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Nothing new to say.. Work and school has been taking most of my time.? I have been browsing many profiles and noticed a few things.? To me,? there appears to be too many topping bottoms.? They want to be slaves or submissives but at the same time be 'bitchy' about things.? 'Its got to be like this or that!"? Instead of submission being a gift - the attitude appears to be more that of a fad and not a lifestyle choice.? Just my thoughts for the day.
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Someone once asked if I was looking for a doormat.. No, I said, just someone who knows how to meet me at the door..... How would you meet me at the door is the question. Mstr Douglas |
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Points to consider... We are in a website that caters to a specific community. Therefore, all things being equal, an individual actively particapating in this community is who they say they are until proven not to be. Acts of showing no respect or acts of being discourteous are various forms of disrespect. That being said, respect for an individual, be they dom or sub/slave, is and always will be earned.? The above is the result of a pleasent email exchange with a 'sub' who felt I was harsh in an earlier journal entry. I made an observation which I still hold to be true.
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I find it very funny, and not in a good way, some of the profiles that state that they are a submissive or a slave tear into folks who have written them. R E S P E C T. ... If you do not have that for a Dom/Domme - you are not a slave/submissive, but rather a person playing who will never really offer their gift of submission.
FYI to many, not all Doms wear leather suits or dress for show.... If any subs/slaves are fortunate to visit old Europe, they would understand. Alas, many may play, few actually live it. Mstr. Douglas
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09/04/2005:? I had breakfast at a diner this morning.? My morning meal would have been pleasent if it were not for the loud undisciplined young lady in the next booth.? If there ever was a person who needed to be trained on how to act in public, she was the poster girl.? Manners & respect -? lost arts. ?
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Another day....? I took yesterday off, therefore today felt like Monday.? Looking forward for school to be starting back up. Hopefully I will finished my MBA by the end of next year.? When I am done I must find a nice 24/7 lady to be mine.? Hmm....
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