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About doth
female submissive...
i am not looking to be used as a one off plaything..
real time a must..
looking for that "One", Mr Reliable, Mr Honest, Mr Trustworthy.. if there is one out there.. sweet but sadistic side is a bonus lol
about me...
i was brought up in a 50's household.. where my Step-Father was the unequivocal leader of the household. my mother and the daughters were subservient to Him, this was something that went without question or discussion it quite simply was this way..my mother brought up 5 children and ran a household ok under the rules of my Father but He travelled a lot for work so rarely was at home.. so my mother had enormous responsibilities.. Reason i mention this is far too many people believe being submissive to someone else is a sign of weakness and entitles them to walk all over them as a doormat but my mother was a prime example that although being subservient she was strong.. This was a living example of how strength and submissiveness are not mutually exclusive. i am very much like my mother and love to serve and please the head of my household in any way i can.. but i do have a strength that enables me to do so..
People ask how long have i been submissive.. i was born this way it is a genetic chemistry i or no one can change it just learn to control it.. i love to serve and please and get 100% gratification from doing so.. i have found from all the spankings as a child from my mother under my Fathers instructions ""i was quite mischievous"" and took blame sometimes for my siblings that i started to enjoy them.. weird maybe to some but not to me.. So yes as i found out i enjoy pain but i have no idea to what extreme.. when others ridiculed or humiliated me i found this quite a turn on too, now this i can't even understand myself but it happens..
another thing..
my mother or myself and my sisters never knelt before my Father although we knew our place. There was never any question who had the power in the household so there was no need for making a spectacle of us..
In the BDSM world M/s D/s there are all to many follow protocols of submission. Those who need there slave/sub kneeling before them to feel in total control usually lack the power..
True power does not come from protocols followed but, rather, the individuals involved in the relationship.
my Father i loved and respected all my life even in His passing i relish the thoughts.. He helped me be a better person and gave me clarity to know my place in this life..
(A) Trust.......
1. Firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of a person or thing.
2. Custody; care.
3. Something committed into the care of another; charge.
(B) Honesty...
1. uprightness; integrity; trustworthiness.
2. truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness.
3. freedom from deceit or fraud.
(C) Respect... 1. A feeling of appreciative, often deferential regard; esteem. 2. The state of being regarded with honour or esteem. 3. Willingness to show consideration or appreciation. (D) Obedience.. 1. the condition or quality of being obedient 2. the act or an instance of obeying; dutiful or submissive behaviour 3. the act of submitting; usually surrendering power to another (E) Passion.. 1. ardent love or affection 2. intense sexual love 3. a strong affection or enthusiasm for an object, concept, etc: (F) Communication..
1. the exchanging of information by speaking, writing, or using some other medium.
2. means of sending or receiving information, such as telephone lines or computers.
A~B~C~D~E ~F above is what makes a D/s M/s relationship..
Without the above Y/you have nothing but sexy kinky play!!
Fear & Vulnerability
Can be such Powerful Aphrodisiacs... |
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OK so i read this today and it made me *smile*
One day Mum was cleaning junior's room and in the closet she found a bondage S+M magazine. This was highly upsetting for her.
She hid the magazine until his father got home and showed it to him.
He looked at it and handed it back to her without a word.
She finally asked him, " Well what should we do about this?"
Dad looked at her and said, "Well I don't think you should spank him." |
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Please be patient with me i have been having internet problems :(
i really do not intentionally mean to reply late to messages so forgive me if it takes a little time to get back to You x |
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Thank Goodness my faith in mankind is restored :) it seems not all on the CM site are after one off meetings.. Thank you to the wonderful people on here for your patience and lovely messages.. So much choice.. |
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Sorry i will be away a few days!! Have a lovely week x |
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