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About DoraExplorer
PET PEEVE IS "LOL" - to me, it means you have practically zero conversation skills. A good writer impresses me. Cutting off words and only talking in abbreviations and acronyms lets me know you are probably a teenager. No thanks. I have a bachelor's degree in English. My job entails editing and proofing legal documents in DC. I am not perfect in any way, and that includes English (I am a white American, born and bred in the south USA). But I am decent at spelling and typing, and try to let that show. I appreciate when a man I'm conversing with is the same way. I don't think it's too much to ask that a person be educated and literate.
I DO NOT WANT TO USE CHAT FEATURE! SO DO NOT REQUEST IT. Just here for online penpal type of friendship only. I choose not to share my picture for government clearance reasons, so please do not ask for it. If you share yours, that is your business. One of the reasons I've stated "just friendship/pen pals" is hoping it will keep people from being so obsessed about what I look like, or what they look like, or asking stupid questions like my measurements (very insulting and it's all so shallow). I realize you are curious about one's looks, but it's mainly to see if you are attracted to them. I don't work like that. I am attracted to how well a man treats me and others. If mutual respect does not exist, you are not someone I will consider as a pen pal. I really do not care about looks.
I'm a non-smoker and non-drinker. Not openly active in any lifestyle nor public scene at all, and won't be. Just here to meet platonic friends and hear about their lives. I am not here to discuss sex or preferences (and most men aren't hung enough anyway - but for dating purposes, if it ever leads to that, I prefer white men, and usually younger men - but the age thing is open...lately I've wondered how it would be to date someone up to 20 years older than me...and 20 years younger....but I doubt we'd have anything in common. I realize my ideal man probably does not exist - a nice white man who is well hung and does not drink or smoke and has a good career and likes BBW women and will treat me really great).
I read one book a week (at least). My favorite authors are James Patterson and Stuart Woods. I watch various tv shows, my favorites being The Office, The Mentalist, Terriers, and just about anything on TLC and HGTV. Heck, I even watch "E" and "Style" channels. I prefer to chill at home alone during time off (weekends) - I'd just rather be home alone than anywhere else. I will always live and sleep alone by choice. I love my privacy, independence and freedom. You really cannot put a price tag on that!
Most men are just so annoying, and I don't want to waste my time and energy on them.
I'm on this site because people in this lifestyle are generally not so judgmental about heavy women. But what amazes me, and keeps happening constantly, is men contacting me who say they are sub/shy types, then start trying to control me via email, and boss me around, telling me how I should and should not feel or act. Seriously?! I cannot stand men who are bossy and controlling and pushy and domineering. If you treat me that poorly via email, imagine how poorly you'd treat me in person (which is why we will never meet!) - and I'd really rather just be here for platonic friendship and as stated, pen pals. I am very blunt and direct. I am a realist. If you don't like this type of personality, move on. Some love my brutal honesty because they don't have to guess and wonder what I'm thinking. Others are intimidated by it. |
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