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Male Switch, 36, OC SD, California
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Transgender Switch, 21, Midland, Texas
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Male Dominant, 50
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About doctormaybe
Educated, professional, slightly eccentric dom (with Daddy-ish tendencies) interested in making new friends in the community for myself and my babygirl. Not looking for anything else at the moment, but I'm open to the possibilities. I've been in the lifestyle for a while, and I've had subs and slaves and babygirls in my care at various times; right now, I'm interested in meeting new people and getting more involved in the community. Even if you're not into the community scene, though, don't think I wouldn't be interested in chatting.
Important note: I am not a gender essentialist. I am not Dominant because I am male, nor do I expect a submissive/slave to be so because she is female. Submission is a gift, as is the stewardship of thoughtful dominance, and each D/s relationship is unique. I hold that there are no "natural" roles based solely on gender and each Dom(me)/sub pairing must work out specific duties and rights for themselves. If you're not okay talking to someone with that philosophy, you shouldn't message me.
Pictures available on request; I think I'm at least reasonably good looking, but I'm not comfortable posting a pic here for professional reasons. |
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Ah, another year, another batch of students who don't read the syllabus...
In all seriousness, I love my job, and I love my students, but there are times I wish I could take a flogger to some of them. And not because I find them attractive, either. The classroom is like a BDSM relationship in many ways: the syllabus is the contract that spells out our responsibilities to one another, and though our statuses relative to each other are unequal, we each have roles to play and obligations to fulfill. I am frustrated when I see my students ignore their responsibilities, take lightly their obligations, and usually to their own detriment more than mine, just as I am frustrated when I meet submissives and dominants both who are casual, even careless, about their responsibilities in a power-exchange relationship.
But I am always reminded, by moments of genuine grace and insight from my students, rare though they may be, that just because someone doesn't "get it" right now, doesn't mean they won't ever. We are all younger than we will be tomorrow or the next day or the next, and each new day brings fresh insight. We are all growing and learning continually, and what we do not now understand, about ourselves or each other, we may yet someday soon. I am continually learning from those I meet and talk to, growing in my understanding of myself and others, and of this lifestyle, and I am grateful for that.
As we mark the new year as an opportunity for change and growth, let us mark each new day as the same, and be glad of it. |
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