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dman808

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Male Switch, 33, cumberland, Rhode Island
Male Dominant, 26
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dman808 - Male Dominant, Orange County California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About dman808

Older for younger.
Gone for a awhile but now back. Attractive, tall, healthy, d+d-free, experienced. I have few limits and I believe in exploring everything the vanilla world forbids. I prefer strict discipline and a lot of inventive, creative roleplay. I dislike repetition and continually like to push the boundaries.

I am mostly interested in finding out and helping you to discover what your boundaries are. I hope that I will learn more about myself also. You might think you know what they are but you don't - how could you? However, you won't be forced to ignore your limits - just willing to push those as far as you can - physical, for sure, but mentally, even more.

My ideal choice is a young, inexperienced female or couple who thinks of herself (themselves) as a blank sheet of paper I will write on. I have a lot to offer in return but I won't discuss that unless you convince me you are worthy. You have to be young because as you get older it becomes harder to try or actively do certain things, especially if you decide to resume vanilla life which is possible for work, or to have a family - that's realistic, right? You may not want to but that's a choice.

I have much more to say but that information and my pics are only for the right person.
You Will Fail.
You will fail because you have the same attitude in learning about D/s and finding a Master as you do in your vanilla life, which goes for 99% of you. Do you even read, let alone think about what you write?
D/s is not about "hot guys" or leather pants or tattoos - those are all external illusions. How did that approach work out for you in vanilla life? I thought so...
Take a step back and think about it... I'll give you a hint: turn everything upside down.

Only gets worse....
This site could be so much better if the owners would just block or remove the obvious fakes and bullshitters. If you are sincere, hang in there. There are real people here, maybe only 1 for every 1,000 fakes, but they're here.
This is pretty typical:
"I want a very harsh, strict Master and he must be very experienced, preferably older...not older than 19 though..willing to relocate but not too far cuz I would miss my? mom and my brothers..."
Here's a great tip for ya - try the following:
match.com, eharmony.com, christiandatingservice.com,
affluentarrangements.com.

You must have landed here by mistake.
Here's another little pointer for the so-called newbies searching for their "Master:" if you have a long list of requirements, living conditions, code of conduct, standards of etitquette, preference of dress, number and size of tats, color, style of hair, clothes, cock size, length taper, etc,etc, you aren't ready for this. Try this: go to the dictionary and look up SUBMISSIVE - start there.
Sometimes I think the entire Hawaii section (Fs) should be turned off. Don't ya just love it: "Pear City?" If you insist on lying try at least to be convincing.
It's too bad CM has become a myspace for the curious ... what a waste. There are definitely some interesting people out there but almost impossible to find em.

For you newcomers, yeah I know what you're thinking... all the workable females are lez? And how come there are so many 20-year-old Dommes? Right... Maybe they think "Dominant" means "Domineering."
I see a lot of ...."I need someone I feel comfortable with.." Well that depends: you should trust your Master but "comfortable" is kind of a vanilla concept. If you have a worthy relationship or session, the envelope must be pushed which is seldom comfortable. That doesn't mean necessarily doing anything dangerous, or forcing someone to do other than they have agreed. I think you'll find that in the best Master-slave relationships, things are seldom predictable, spontaneous, sometimes a little scary, and not too "comfortable."
News Flash - A kinky boyfriend is not a Master.If you really want someone with experience who can be a true Master to you, he won't likely be in his 20's....
It's not about how much you've read about the life, it's about the brain in your head and your experiences.  When you look at someone in their 'teens or 20's, do you really think the word "Master?"
Master role models are always older. Like Fathers, Teachers, Bosses, Older Brothers, etc.
VANILLA PEOPLE JUST GO AWAY.
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