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About dm28
My name is Michael and I am a 28 year old sub who has been interested in the lifestyle for most of my adult life. Around the age of 16, I began noticing different aspects of the BDSM lifestyle on the internet. At that time, it was mainly talking in chatrooms simply about the lifestyle, rather than actively participating in anything. As I grew older, I became more and more interested in being a sub.
Contrary to many people in the lifestyle, I believe that a Domme/sub relationship is a two way street. While the Domme obviously is the main focus, it's important that as a sub I am treated properly as well. Communication is a major focus of this, as I have found many Dommes in this lifestyle who have a habit of disappearing after a conversation or two...leaving me wondering exactly what happened.
One thing that always seemed to seperate me from most is that I am not someone who is focused on pain. Pain is something that can be needed in a Domme/sub relationship, but it's also something that I seek to stay away from as much as possible. At times though, I understand that a Domme needs to show me pain as part of my development. What has always interested me about the lifestyle is the instructional aspect from a loving Domme. I've always found the moments where a Domme instructs me to perform certain acts (anything from wearing something specific under my clothes to work, or following her instructions during a phone conversation).
I apologize if my post appears as though I'm rambling, but I'm just letting my thoughts out. What I am specifically looking for at this time is a Domme who would be interested in talking online and over the phone. I am obedient and enjoy following instructions, and I definitely focused on ensuring that she is having a positive experience as well. I'm sure that if you respond, we could go a bit more into detail about what I am looking for, in addition to what you are looking for in me. My schedule is kind of tight though, which is why I am not immediately looking for a realtime Domme. I am generally online for a few hours each night, up until around 1:30 AM. I believe in strong communication and do have the ability to keep myself connected in some way at all times.
If this is something you are interested in, and you're understanding of the phone/online limitations that I have at this time, I would love to hear from you. This has been something that I've been searching out for a while, but there have not been a lot of positive responses. In fact, most responses I've received have been less than five words in length, including subsequent responses. I would be interested in speaking to someone who is willing to speak to me as well...which I don't think is too much to ask.
If this sounds like something that interests you, I ask that you please send me a message. I will eagerly await a response.
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