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Are you tired of the players, pretenders, posers, and wanna be perverts? Are you tired of people calling themselves Dom/Dommes and they are really just someone looking to get laid? Are you tired of phonies not truly understanding what it means to OWN a slave?
If you said, "yes!" to any or all of those questions then you are like most of the serious people here and you should keep reading. Now, if you are one of the people who are the before mentioned "P" type personalities then move your mouse over the green "back" arrow and forget that you ever saw this profile.
Those of you who are serious are encouraged to continue reading. Who knows? It may even change your life ;)
Do you crave an Dom/Owner that is intelligent and strong enough to guide you through life? Do you yearn to have your world controlled and molded around you without having to question or worry about how it takes shape? Do you lust to have your servitude rewarded in the ways you envision in your fantasies? Do you search for a Master or Dom who knows that each person has their own needs to leave them feeling fulfilled?
Of course you do and your search may be over!!!
While I know that, what was just said, is enough for you to want to stop reading and write to your new owner. However, I also know that you should keep reading and fight back the urge for just a few more minutes. You will be glad you did.
I am not your average Dom/Master on here or anywhere for that matter. I am a proven and established Dom. What DOES make me unique is that I fit many profiles. With me you have an experienced, good looking, alpha dominant male, with a genius I.Q. (8 points below Einstein's) and who has been in the lifestyle for over 14 years. While I am 32, I have the wisdom of a senior citizen and the stamina of a teenager. I have had a couple of longer term (2-10 years) slave/subs and over a dozen in a half short term (under 12 months). Keep in mind these numbers only reflect those who had been in my service and our relationship defined as such. This does not include all of those who were just naturally subservient to me. What really sets me apart from all the others(real and not) is that you will be treated however it will make you perform better, not just for my own self-centered ideas. Your loyalty, obedience, and servitude are the three most important things to me. I am more logical than emotional, but I can make people feel how I choose. I tend to be more intense than most and have been told many times that I am a drug. I have also been told that my personality alone exudes control not because I say anything, but rather because they don't want to disappoint me.
I come from the wrong side of the tracks, yet I am now wearing a white collar in the business world. This means I can negotiate the contracts for a business deal or break someones bones if they don't sign. LOL I ran one of the regions largest gangs (now dissolved) in my younger years and still have many loyal to me. I don't say this to impress you, but rather to impress upon you that I can and do walk in both worlds. A king with out a country so to speak.
I am looking for two basic types of slaves/subs:
First, would be a female domestic sub/slave. This is someone that would be 24/7, would be a live in, and take care of my personal needs. They will also be expected to perform vanilla tasks because they will be closer to me and more like part of my family. For their servitude they will be rewarded with an enjoyable life filled with the emotional and physical needs they require, whether your preference is based off of reward, sadism, or a mixture of both. This type of personality will be the only position that may aspire to wife if any. While I am not opposed to marriage I will need time for someone to prove to me that marrying her is the right thing. I am also open to the possibility of a switch or a Domme on a case by case basis (By no means does this mean I will ever be a switch though).The applicant should be fulfilled from making their Dom/master happy and reach more self satisfaction by being so close to me. The better you do the better you will be rewarded.
The second is your overall personal sub/slave. Again It is possible for a switch on a case by case basis. Preferably your 24/7 TPE type personality, but that is not required. They may be a live in/out, but what remains the same is that they will do what they're told, when they're told, without question, because they know their Master has everyone's best interest at heart. They may be male or female, however, keep in mind that I am straight and naturally more sadistic toward males and t/s. They too will be rewarded the same way as a domestic slave in regard to being treated how will best make them perform.
For either type of sub/slave I can and will be as sadistic or as rewarding as you need in order to be fulfilled.
In addition I am also interested in meeting new like minded friends. Also, if I actually take the time to write to you first, it means that I am interested in finding out what you are looking for and seeing if it is something that would work for me as well.
I will be adding more, however, this should be enough to get you started understanding who your new Master is and requires. Until I offer and you accept a collar from me, you have permission to ask the questions you need to get to know me better.
What are you waiting for? Get to writing your new Dom/Owner now and send a pic if you don't have one on your profile. You can see who I am and I expect to see who you are.
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Hello all,
Yes it has been a while since I have been on here. With stocks taking a dump, the economy wish washing, and two funerals...my time has been spread thin. I will try and get back to everyone as quick as I can.
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Hello all,
I got back from the lake last night and I already miss it. Ha!
I have a ton of emails to get back to, so, don't get worried if I don't reply right away. I am starting with the oldest (from the 3rd) and working to the newest. |
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Hello all,
Obviously I have not been on here in a while. I have been in and out of town for business, so much lately, that my days have all been running together. The laptop I took with me had a problem connecting to the Internet, not that I really had that much free time while I was gone anyway. I will be trying to reply to everyone before I leave tonight, but if I don't get back to you tonight, I will reply when I get back. I am leaving for a much needed vacation tonight and I will be back either Tues. or Wed. I haven't decided yet. Until then I hope everyone has a great Holiday and I will talk to you all soon.
Unil next time,
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Hello everyone,
I have not been on for a few days and I have 2 pages of emails to go through. I will be getting back to everyone as quickly as possible.
I had an old friend come out to visit, that I haven't seen in 15 years. It just so happened that this weekend there was a 3 day concert playing. Between the festival and catching up on old times, I didn't get a chance to check my email until today.
I hope all is well and everyone had as good of a weekend as I did. |
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Here is just a quick update to alleviate any confusion. The numbers on my profile are different in my journal, because I differentiate personal and professional. I think it goes without saying that my profile was talking about personal and the last journal entry was talking about professional. |
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Hello boys and girls,
I have been asked 3 times today how I got into the lifestyle, so, rather than repeating myself again.....
When I was 18 I had moved down to the New Orleans area. For those of you who do not know first hand, the area was "freak central". There was always something for everyone down there. I had to grow up at a very young age, so, I was not some naive kid when I moved there. However, it was a whole new world and it was full of many new experiences.
I made a good older friend, who I found out was gay after a while of knowing him. Admittedly, I was a bit homophobic prior to that and ignorant to the homosexual structure. After spending time with him and his friends, my mind opened up more than a little. He and his (very rich) partner had a huge crush on me and they tried (a lot) to get me to "switch hit". When I turned down large amounts of money to sleep with them or to let them service me, the point was clear that I was strait (regardless of how rich they were). After a few weeks of not being solicited by my friend anymore, they came to me with a new monetary offer. They offered me a ridiculous amount of money to become their Pro Dom. After detailing our arrangement, I realized that I could not pass up that amount of money just to whip and degrade them. While it was extremely sexual for them, for me it was just a good work out of "cracking the whip". After about a month of regular sessions they started introducing more men and women to me. Most were wealthy and held prestigious positions, although, some were not as notable. Each person/couple was different in their own ways. Some were just a job and others were much more gratifying.
Through out the years, there have been many dozens. Some were just clients...some became just property...and some became very close to me. I have trained Doms/Dommes, switches, subs, and slaves. Since before I reached my teenage years, I had a deep interest in psychology, sociology, and an overall interest in the human experience. This, coupled with a high I.Q. (ability to learn and analyze) I became very good at what I do. I have retained long time clients as well as "personals" not only by a honed technique, but a unique ability to get in their heads. To create the "illusion", so to speak. For those that became close to me, it became much more than an illusion. My unique ability to tailor each situation to the needs/desires of the person in question, leaves them satisfied mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
Of course learning this raised the next set of questions...
Do I still Pro Dom? In short, the answer is yes. I have had clients that have been with me for years. Some come to where ever I am and others fly me out to them.
Do I take new clients? Yes, however, I am very selective.
Does money lower my standards for selectivity? While I would like to say no, the answer is yes, although, it does not change my limits or rules.
Would you consider being someones Dom without payment? I almost don't want to dignify such a dumb question with an answer! Seriously, I have to wonder if they even read my profile. Granted this was only asked once, but I figure everyone else can get a decent laugh. My answer: Well since there has not been mention of anything of these sorts before now, I would think that "yes" would be the obvious answer. No where on my profile
does it even seem like and advertisement for Pro Dom work. Money is not the only way to be rewarded.
Oh, by the way, this was a "Dom/Domme" couple that asked me.
Since you have done this for so long successfully, do you plan on opening a dungeon? As a matter of fact, yes. I am in the beginning stages of creating a private dungeon which will eventually lead to copies created all over the world, as well as a private island resort modeled after the concept of "Exit to Eden". This reason more than any is why I am willing to talk to other Doms/Dommes and switches, as well.
Before I am asked this...I will just answer the next logical question...Is this why your profile states that you are looking for multiple types of candidates? Yes. Two types; for myself (personals) and candidates for the dungeon.
Now this question just pops up here and there, so, while I am on a streak here I might as well answer it too...
Do you have references? Seriously, why would anyone ask this? That is like asking a company for a list of references. Do you think anyone is going to give you a list of people that are not happy with their services? Or what about the people/companies that just give you the name and number of their best friend, roommate, or cousin? Even if you are brand new to the lifestyle, you should be able to spot a faker pretty easily. Let's just say for a minute that they fooled you in the beginning, don't you think you would figure it out on the first meeting? Come on people you don't ask for references. You interview that person to decide if you want to go further. If the person is not a "P" type personality, they will be more than happy to answer your questions. |
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I need to address two things.
First: Just because it says I am online, doesn't mean that I am actually near my computer. It doesn't even mean that collarme is on a browser on any of my computers. I do, however, tend to leave a page up on one of the computers, so, that I can reply to emails a little at a time, throughout the day. As you can see from the rest of my profile/journal, I have a lot on my plate. I take time when I can throughout the day and at the end of the night to reply to emails. With that being said, I am not ignoring or ducking anyone if I do not reply immediately.
Second: I went out of town for business and did not get back until Sunday morning. When I got back I found that there was a problem with the cable company (also my Internet provider) throughout my whole area. Obviously, it is back on now. |
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I have noticed a few of the same questions being asked, so, I will take this time to answer them ahead of time here.
No, I am not from this area.
No, I do not plan on staying or retiring here.
I spent most of my life living in resort areas and plan to continue.
I relocated to the area because of its strategic location for the various businesses I am involved with.
I came here after a deal to buy a factory in Ga. went south from a lawsuit that was to be filed by the widow of a maintenance man who fell to his death through the the skylight 3 stories up, a few weeks before we would have finalized the deal. No one should want to buy that type of liability.
I am involved with real estate, manufacturing, business consulting, and a few small end user retail sectors. Real estate and business consulting are my main focuses right now.
I am just as comfortable having dinner with the Governor as I am with trailer trash. No, I don't expect you to be, however, it will be a plus if you are too.
Yes, I will consider short term, yet I prefer long term.
No, experience is not as important to me as it is to some. Besides, just because someone has training does not mean they were trained well.
(For the gay applicants) Yes if you are good you will be allowed to play with the others, since I am strait. Providing there is a mutual desire between all involved.
Finally...yes, if I added you to my favorites I do plan on writing to you, however, it will only be when I have time after responding to those that I am already talking to and then after those who take the initiative to write me first (in that order).
I hope this helps for now. I am sure I will be adding more later.
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I have had many wonderful responses, so, I thought I would put in and excerpt or two from one that I thoroughly enjoyed for a couple of reasons. 1st to praise this person and 2nd to give an example to everyone else. I will be leaving out the parts that were meant for private.
Don,
thank you for an amazing response. I have thoroughly enjoyed reading it.
What has jumped out to me is your obvious intelligence (which is a huge relief to me, given that i have a hard time continuing a long term service to a guy who is not very smart).
The fact that you would get emotionally attached to your slaves is also very hot. i find that i can only really get into wanting to serve a Master if i am emotionally attached to him. ...............You probably have slaves serve you for that many years because you customize their needs, and get better productivity and loyalty from them as a result. .............The psychological aspect of you knowing you are stronger/better and are entitled to have me there to serve your whims is pretty fucking hot.
The rest of the time, i know you are in charge through the fact that you can still tell me what to do whenever you want to, and make me do things for you, but of course - being talked nicely to is to is also wonderful - and allows genuine affection and love. It is not interesting or practical to be a 24/7 punchingbag. i have a feeling that you are a nice guy beneath your dom sexual side (given the thoughtful way you write your messages). i like you being who you are, and the relationship being organic. ..............i was very honest there Don - and laid it on the table. If you are not interested, i understand - chemistry is a strange thing. If you are, i am officially turned on :-) |
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Apparently there are some things I should address here, so as to alleviate any confusion.
I thought most of this was self-explanatory or just a given from what I have already put on my profile.
1st. Just because I put the word "wife" on my profile does not mean that is what my search here is for. It was simply meant to explain that there was the possibility for that (in the future) for a select few sorts of positions/mentalities. Put simply I am open to the idea, if this type of woman is capable of earning my proposal. For anyone to write me and say that they are only interested if I promise to marry them within 30 days of their arrival is well....unrealistic. I wish that person well, but that made it clear to me that we would not be a good fit for each other.
2nd. Just because I will entertain the idea of a female switch or Dom, does not mean that I will switch, sub, or slave. I am not a person who is here for pretend or to pose as if I am anything other than what I am. My dominance is not out of a desire it is solely a definition to my personality. Not only was I born with the natural ability to lead, but my life has been a culmination of such experiences and training.
3rd. I believe that a relationship of any sort needs to start on neutral ground. We do not know each other, nor do you wear my collar when we first begin to converse. With that being said, I also feel that it is a switch, sub, or slaves right to be spoke to as a normal person. This means unless you wear my collar (with an understanding of how you desire to be treated) or you have stated in your profile that you do not wish any respect to be afforded to you, I will speak to you as a potential applicant that has the choice to serve whom they wish. This does not mean that I can not be as sadistic as you need me to be or that I am not capable of varying your treatment. It has been my experience that each person has their own needs and motivations to perform to their potential. Once an understanding has been reached, I will be able to anticipate your needs and desires.
4th. While I will tolerate and understand the need for a relationship to start long distance, I am not here for cybering or on-line mastery. These situations will only be used as a means to an end, in order to facilitate a real time situation.
5th. yes I know my eyes were puffy in the picture. lol I had been up for around 36 hours and the camera we used was not the best. My intent was for you to see that I am real. As you see I am not fat and I am gaining more definition as time goes on. I am not one of those guys who keeps going down hill as they age.
6th. I understand the pictures made it hard for you to see the color of my eyes. They are hazel and yes those are real long lashes. The fact I have been compared to a drug (by many people) is attributed to my come here eyes, deep voice, confidence, and the intelligence to get into your head (in a good way).
I am sure I will have more to add here in the future. Until then feel free to ask what ever you like. |
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