I grew up in a military family and was pretty much drilled everyday of my life to be a better man. If I fell short of progress or regressed, it was corrected promptly and harshly with drills and instruction. When I was old enough, I enlisted in the police force and military, received training in both and learned to accept and embrace a "Do or die" policy. I make mistakes, many mistakes, but I make the hard decisions. It hurts when I am wrong, but I make those calls and learn every single time I mess up.
Do to my attention to detail and punctuality in all situations, I've gotten a job at my relatively young age without a degree in the career field I want to be in. If I intend to take you in, I will let you know how much I exactly make. And no, I'm not rich, I am independent though.
I have achieved a number of my personal goals in life, and still driven to do a lot more for myself, along with those I choose to share my life with. I have named her Sarah (No real reason). It is a 2007 Chevy Cobalt, Tan.
To be a man, so I've been taught, is to be able to work, provide for themself and for their partner. For me, it translates to everyone who the man is responsible for, including their children.
Long Term and Short Term Goals
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- Promotion, Raise, or better job in the year
- Pay off my Car this year
- Own a home, or have a home 50% paid off by the time I am 25.
- Own or Run a business by 30
- Get into Robotics
Why I would like a Slave/Sub
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I personally find it hard if not impossible to love someone who is your equal. Which is why we love our parents, they will always know a little bit more... and they love us since they can show us something new.
It is also more natural to expect someone to take care of some major tasks in your life, so it allows some people to specialize, even in seemingly menial tasks. May seem menial till you notice when something is slightly off. When you lose someone who has done it, they never do it like the last person who happened to have that skill to make it right.
In terms of sex, I feel that it is the slave embracing her side to keep her partner happy, and that she receives her pleasure from following the orders of her master. I also believe that the slave is to be pleasured as well in terms of love and comforts and giving her direct pleasure if she can maintain all of her duties and alleviate the stresses that home possess.
A happy man is a giving man. And I am blessed to be normally a happy man except on those hard days... which a good woman's touch and love, could change my perspective on how it ends.
My beliefs on Master/Slave, Dom/Sub, Master/Pet relationships
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I believe that this is not who we just are, and all who we will be.
I believe that we can become more than this. It only requires time, energy, training, and practice. This is a fact in all things: Working, Relationships, Sex, Domination, etc.
I have trained two previous girls, both under very different circumstances, and I have yet to have a traditional relationship since I was 18. I learned very quickly that the only good women in the world, are the ones that are strong enough to accept a man's will and judgement being thrusted upon them. I admire these kind of women, and respect them. But one has to also understand them so that a good dom/master can show them the way.
To have someone submit to you is not a right, but a privilege. But to have someone dominate and train you is the same. You must truly have the heart, and be ready to accept what may come, and if worse comes to worse, accept that sometimes, this is not the lifestyle you truly envisioned.
To serve is to please. To dominate is to respect. By denying those who wish to serve is a sign of the greatest disrespect to those that wish to serve.
I would hope those who would read this, would understand what I see, and what I truly want.
A woman who is ready to truly become more than who she is. A good servant to her master/dom.
About my messaging
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I work 40+ Hours a week... so if I don't respond, please be patient. I sometimes relax and mellow out during the week.
Meeting up if we are compatible
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If you been paying attention ;) --- I do have car and I am willing to travel to pick up or meet up if we prove to be a good match. But please, let us chat, and see where it goes.
Roleplaying
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I get bored and enjoy a distraction here and there. And I also find it a good way to see how much of a match we are. If we can't roleplay in a way that works out... then we clearly aren't meant for eachother.
Weakness
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Chocolate, a mixed up rubix cube (I can solve them), short girls, scented candles, and horror movies, my precious cat Lola.
Open to
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Anyone in the Continental USA and Canada
Decided to get a new job... left my old one and got a new one as a Software Engineer in under 10 days. Also got a second cat, more my tenant's cat named Butternip.
And now... new project: Remodel the entire kitchen.
Finally decided to adopt a cat from the local Humane Society Shelter. She is a black cat, 3 years old, and soooo sweet and loves to cuddle. Her name is Lola <3
Finally fully moved into the new house... now the fun job of furnishing it all.
Finally got most of the work done for the house! I move in less than a week!
So my last loan officer had to jump me to a new loan officer and now I have to redo all of the paperwork and gather information from the last several years in order to move in. Checklist made, going down it one by one...
As I do it, makes me imagine checking off tasks for a special someone as she completes her tasks for the day. ;)
After some tough negotiations and weeks of hunting, I've finally found my dream home (well dream starter home), and I will be moving in Late September or mid October. This is a nerveracking time, but it is a future that I am fighting for. A future for myself, and the one that is most precious to me, the person I have yet to meet.
Its such a difficult process to buy a house... but its an important step in creating a life that you want with a destiny that you can set for yourself. I am blessed to have what I do... but what I do for myself also benefits the one that I ultimately choose and allow to love and serve me.
Someone described me as a Daddy Dom. I thought it was more or less reserved for generally older men, but I am learning that is more of a mindset more than anything else.
Having an ego or pride is fine, but when it gets in the way and makes you misunderstand and lack the imagination necessary to have a functioning interaction with another human being... but I'm sorry to say, I am not going to tolerate that.
I'll have respect for you and I expect you to respect me. But if you can't handle a man doing what is necessary to do his job, then you are not going to have a man who will want to keep you and support you.
Several submissives I've found complain about not getting any respect from a dom, but those very same submissives seem to also lack giving respect and fail practicing humility for their prospective dom. Respect might be the wrong word, but at least some basic consideration.
I am not in this to rush anything either. I am not here to play games. And if I feel like if you are going to play games, I am not going to pay any real mind or attention to you.
Just started reading the Gor series. Downloaded all the books. So far... I'm liking a lot of the ideas put forward. But I am curious how it all plays out, or if it may be something I'd eventually like to experiment with, the Gorean Lifestyle.
Last weekend went storm chasing. Drove through Kansas, Iowa, and Nebraska trying to get a good storm. Finally caught up with one around Lincoln and chased it all the way to Bellevue, then Council Bluffs, before needing to return home. Though we missed out on some good storms out in Kansas... if only we held our position or chased the one that went to Wichita... :(
