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Dominant Couple, 37, Utica, New York
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Male Submissive, 30, Tempe, Arizona
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Dominant Couple, 37, San Francisco, California
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About DistractingDesir
New profile Nov 17, 2019
First things first Im really afraid to put myself out there because Ive been burned a bit... More than a bit. So Ill probably come off as reserved at first, but once you get to know me I can be a bucket of energy.... So better to have the restraints ready by then.
Ive been in Colorado for a bit now, but Ive been really lazy at putting myself out to the universe as a friend described.
Honestly right now Im in a place where Im trying to work on myself and am struggling with it.
As time goes on, Ill figure out more what Im looking for, but for now Im looking for safe people that are in tune with themselves and know how to control the raging insanity inside of them. If what I said doesnt make sense to you, thats ok. I just re-read it and cant figure it out either.
What I know Im looking for right now is happiness. Ideally through submission but also can be through temporary creative and cathartic pursuits, like rope, photoshoots, impact, and way more.
But also the non kinky stuff like hiking, snowboarding, music, dancing, Netflix, reading.
What Im not looking for
Pleasantries. If you ask me about the weather, Im going to talk your ear off about the weather... But thats also because I have taught grad level courses about weather so Im a bit biased. If you ask me how I am, Im going to try to be honest.
Re photoshoots, where are all the hot pictures of subby boys? Lets make more of those!
Also since everyone is posting this I might as well
Results from bdsmtest.org
100 Brat
100 Rope bunny
98 Experimentalist
97 Masochist
96 Submissive
95 Degradee
89 Non-monogamist
77 Slave
75 Primal (Prey)
62 Sadist
Ill iterate on this profile eventually...
I wont change myself unless there is something worth changing for Your identity is your most valuable possession. Protect it. -Elastigirl, The Incredibles.
I am happy with who I am The things that make me different are the things that make me me -Winne the Pooh, Winnie-The-Pooh.
Im not afraid of what the future will bring I dont do fear -Raven, Teen Titans.
Nothing is straighforward Time isnt made out of lines. Its made up of circles. Thats why clocks are round. -Caboose, Red vs. Blue
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No male doms.
Female and trans of all roles welcome.
Male subs only |
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Pros and cons of moving:
Pro:getting rid of unnecessary shit
Con: finding endless amounts of unnecessary shit
Pro: Thinking of fun ways to label the boxes of whips and sci
Con: finding all the sentimental stuff you forgot about |
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Ugh, chastity sucks.
Frustration and desire,
Waiting for release.
How many days more?
But my balls I must ignore
I must now endure.
For those that read this,
I'm sorry my haikus suck,
Please bear with me now.
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We imposed a stronger D/s dynamic to see where it would lead.
First thing she had me do was bring her to orgasm multiple times without letting me. Being edged that hard that many times actually made it so that when she finally did let me cum, some of the cum had congealed. It was such a weird orgasm. Now I'm not allowed to cum for a couple weeks while she continues to edge me and orgasm over and over again.
Additionally, I've been making her breakfast every morning and massaging her to sleep.
She woke up before me yesterday and woke me up via breathplay <3 |
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We have a D/s relationship but it's not very prominent as our romantic relationship. I wish I could be more of a property to her and be more of a submissive or maybe even a slave to her... I don't think she'd be comfortable with that though.. |
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I think I've fallen in love. Harder than ever before. She... she's wonderful. She's everything I could have ever hoped for. and much much more |
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I met someone. Rather amazing person. I hope it works. |
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You know you have good friends when one of them tells you that they're bringing the aftercare equipment for you to your birthday party. It's gonna be a fun celebration today ^_^ |
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Super stoked for tonight's 80s themed play party!!!
Post party edit: there was a pole dance room... Needless to say I got enough tips to cover my party ticket and then some
Also learned something about myself: I love being objectified |
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I think the reason kinky people need kink during times when they lose someone is because they are losing part of their identity and need to supplement with something else in their identity. Since kink is intense and cathartic, it is the obvious choice to embrace... time to embrace |
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Spending the night in the hospital. I told the RN I wanted to see star wars and she tells me a bunch of spoilers! Ugh :( |
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